time to go shoe shopping!

mad about the play

Everyone has been raving about Brief Encounter at ACT and we join
the chorus of appreciation and awe. This is v. British and extremely
well acted ~ an adaptation of Noel Coward's 1945 movie. By now
you know it's the age old story of married love, alas Laura and Alec
are not married to each other. It's sweet and romantic and sad and
funny...and it's been extended until Oct. 11th. See it!

cribbage anyone?

Yesterday on part of my lunch hour, I toured the Inuit Art exhibit at
the de Young. There are only 80 pieces, but they are incredible. I loved
the adorable animals and ingenious carvings, especially the cribbage
boards. I imagine that there was is a lot of cribbage playing during those
long cold Arctic nights because there were about 5 different boards on
display. I believe I yawned when I first heard about this exhibit ~
wrong again!

jen, ken, buffy, stieg, mitchell, more!

That was one fine day off! First to Costco for a little shopping and
marital bickering, then on Muni (deodorant is so passé) to meet
Dancing Jen for lunch. I swear, that one block on Jackson between
Kearny and Grant is like being in China. About 20 little restaurants
and all of them busy. Busier even than Tam's in Pathetica. We
had a lovely lunch and discussed many important things.

I drove over to the Noe Valley Library for my reserved copy of
The Girl Who Played With Fire and since it was HOT, I stopped
for a small serving of luscious Mitchell's coconut ice cream.
Some days a woman has no choice.

Then to Books, Inc. for coffee with Ken. When I mentioned Morbid
Curiosity to the sales associate he said, "we're having an event
here!". I love that knowledge and promotion. So, Nov. 6th, at the
Castro and Market location. The book is actually available, at the
Laurel Heights Books, Inc, but I didn't have time to drive there and
pick it up. Next week. So Ken and I had coffee and mostly talked
about his recent trip to Berlin.

It was one fine day off indeed. Now to the deYoung for some sincere
customer contact.

heading downtown today

I do miss the mess and excitement of downtown SF, even though
I was getting a little tired of the sidewalks crowded with loud
18 year olds and the homeless asking me for help every half
block. So today I'll head down early for some smart shopping
(as the Fevered Brain would say) and then zig zag to Chinatown
for lunch with Dancing Jen. I'm looking forward to the day
because I'm still a city woman, even though I have grass stains
from being in Golden Gate Park. And I haven't seen Jen in an
age, so that will be a delight.

Destination is Z&Y on Jackson Street and although I have not
been here, the food is always better in Chinatown than in the
neighborhoods. There, that is my blanket statement for today
that I'll end up denying later, as per usual.

theater season begins

I just glanced at the Chronicle's "little man" who is falling out of
his seat with happiness for ACT's Brief Encounter. We will
be going Sunday night, and though there will be some driving,
Muni, parking, hurry-hurry issues, it's always exciting to start
our season of live theater. This year ACT offered $10 tickets
for all the previews (seats in the second balcony) and that
smart move was a huge success. We need young blood in the
audience and maybe this will help.

who has the blues? (not me!)

OK, it's time to tell you about Loren's book entitled Morbid Curiosity
Cures The Blues. What a lot of work she has done, and I only know
the half of it. One of the first pieces I ever wrote (when I started at
the Writing Salon) is in the book ~ it's entitled Halloween Hell and
it tells the sad/funny story of when I managed one of those temporary
Halloween stores in 2000, in the heart of crazy San Francisco. It
was one of the WORST jobs I've ever had, and baby, I've had some.
But at least I knew that this one would be over on October 31st.

The book comes out September 29th, and Loren will be doing a lot
of book signings. Smart woman, that's the only way to get a book
to sell ~ in the first 3 months when there is some buzz. So check
out this very cool link for the dates, I'll be at the noon event at
Borders (the big box!) on Saturday, October 17th.

Oh, and this is as good a time as any to thank Loren sincerely for
including me in this book. Her support for me and my writing
during the past 8 or so years is one of the main reasons that I'm
taking the fiction course. It's all very exciting. Very.

more fiction practice

I am a Round Robin substitute again this week. I'm thankful to Mistress
Jane for this opportunity and for the prompt above. I never know where
I'm going with these interesting photo prompts, and yes, it's great fun.

Photo #17 (moonlight cafe in the rain)

Ellen was meeting the man she met online at the Moonlight Cafe on
Cortland Avenue in Bernal Heights. It was one of those strange heavy
misty nights in San Francisco and she was unprepared for this, not
wanting to put her raincoat on in September. Everyone knows that it
doesn't rain between May 15 and October 15 in the City, and yet
here she was driving with her windshield wipers on, looking out at
the folks with their umbrellas. It was a warm and cleansing rain,
just what this dirty city needed.

Aaron Goldberg would be interesting, she hoped. It was her first
internet date and although she had heard horror stories about these
arrangements, she also knew of a few couples who had hooked
up via computers. "I'm better in email", Ellen thought to herself,
"especially the first time I meet someone".

Oh, it looked so inviting, the Moonlight Cafe, almost like a bistro
in Paris. And she could smell the coffee as she emerged from her
little red Smart Car. There weren't many customers and she could
quickly scan them to see if she could see a single older man
wearing a beret.

There he was seated against the wall. A tweedy type of guy
with a black beret who was reading the New York Times."Oh,
oh, he's too smart for me", Ellen thought, but then remembered
her promise of no more negative Ellen-thinking. "I'm OK just the
way I am", she muttered under her breath as she opened the door
and smiled over at Professor Goldberg.

sunday revisited

It could have been a gloomy day out at the Legion, but museum
goers want to see art on grey and almost-rainy days, so we were
busy and productive.

Then last night we watched State of Play with Russell Crowe,
Ben Affleck and Helen Mirren. You remember we saw the original
BBC series, but this was Americanized and we both enjoyed it.
Of course we seem to need MORE unnecessary violence, but
the writing and acting held it all together. Yes, rent it!

dejected giants (and fans)

There were too many joyful (and drunk) Dodger fans last night. It
was a rough night even for The Great Plotnik who loves those blue
scumsuckers. I enjoyed being with my friends and catching up on
all things not-baseball, and thanks to the blogmaid for getting us
these very expensive seats when she complained to the usher about
our loud blue neighbors who were spilling beer and being totally
obnoxious. Of course the garlic fries were excellent too.

Next year I'm resolving to go to more games, but I'll avoid the
Dodger games. Unless they are on a losing streak, of course.

Oh, thanks for the ride home (and the city parking experience,
ahem) last night Mr. and Ms. blogmaid.

baseball tonight

About the only good thing about last night's game was the little
girl with the panda bear on TV. For you non-baseball readers,
Panda is the nickname for Pablo Sandoval, an infield Giant
who sometimes actually hits the ball with the bat.

After work I'll meet the baseball e-mail group at the Jewel:
Mr. and Ms. Blogmaid, notthat, Dodger Doug and we hope to
see Sally too. Show me the Polish dog and garlic fries.

This morning there is thunder and lightening! It happens every
September, yet I'm always surprised. Then the rain?

mid-book review

Yes, I'm really enjoying Netherland by Joseph O'Neill.
Here is an example of his fine writing:

We were standing next to a painting of a horse's face, the very memory of which makes me want to go back and study it once again, for this horse's face, with its pale, dolorous nose set against darkness, seemed to promise to the person who studied it long enough some transcendental revelation. "You ever groomed a horse?" the ginger-bearded fellow asked, whereupon he was moved to recall his boyhood in Colorado, when he had spent more than one summer working on a dude ranch. He told me you brushed a horse with a variety of brushes, and that the coat of a horse will release small clouds of dirt, and that he used a special mane comb to comb the manes, but very gently, because hairs in a mane break so easily. My eyes were all the while directed at the painted horse, and only when my friend stopped speaking did I turn and see him stroking a tear from his eye.

the french touch

We play a lot of French music out at the Legion. Sometimes the
tourists will start singing along in their beautiful language.
Yesterday a dapper man wanted to take a photo of the CD
"I Love Paris" that we were playing. He said he was having
a great time in San Francisco and when I wished him 8 more
days of happiness here he said, "I'm working on it". He
found that very-American phrase to be amusing. So I taught
him, "whatever". Then about 10 minutes later he came back
and wanted to take MY picture and of course I said "yes",
figuring he is a fellow-blogger.

"Yeah, I'm going to France!", I said.
"Mai oui", he responded.

baseball this week

I'm beginning to obsess about the Giants and I don't know if I
need this in my life right now. I've been there before ~ the
sleep issues, cursing the bullpen, the if-onlys, the I-can't-watch-
this-from-here-I'll-go-outside and the "isn't this suppposed
to be fun?" kind of thoughts. Argh.

I read somewhere that the fans suffer these losses more than
the players do. I hope not, I want them to hurt too. Not that
we all don't make mistakes, but please, just do your job and
do it right.

We are going to a game on Saturday. Dodgers vs. Giants.
Could we possibly just win every game until the end of the
season? That's really all I ask.

first day of kindergarten!

Here she is ~ RR goes to school, Sea Crest Elementary. Lots of new adventures for everyone. The blogmaid knew I was waiting for commano material, so here you go. Thanks, what fun...

Answer to Jason: yes, I finished Hedgehog and loved it! Did you?

nose in new book

"She has her nose in another book", my mother used to say
with disdain. I don't think she realized how much pleasure
reading would give me as I grew up and beyond. Mostly she
read The Pasadena Star News and that says so much, too much.

Netherland by Joseph O'Neill has had some great reviews
and right from the get-go I'm liking it a lot. Love will come
later, I betcha.

end of summer

There's always something poignant about the Labor Day weekend, even
more so to me than January 1st. Here we have this beautiful old fig
tree in the park in San Mateo. Underneath you can almost see RR and
one of her livelong friends playing raccoon ~ gathering and organizing
nuts and leaves, etc. Thanks to the blogmaid for sending me this
pre-straightened photo to cheer me as summer moves into fall. Of
course NOW we get our nice, sunny weather here in Frisco. That's OK.

ellen, keith, et. al.

I'm feeling proud of myself this morning. I just signed up for a
10-week Introduction to Fiction Writing class at the distinguished
Writing Salon. It's a huge commitment of time and energy, but
I figure, if not now WHEN? Thanks to the museums I have the
money and thanks to you, my readers, I have the encouragement.
Your response to the times I fiddled around with Keith in Ellen's
garden were very rewarding to me, so belated heartfelt thanks.

It all starts in October (Monday nights) and I'm already excited.

needing a day off

I always want an entire day to myself after our writing group
meets as it did last night. Will's new poetry book is sitting
on our small square coffee table and the bright orange title
Wednesday After Lunch looks so inviting on the blue
background with the orange staircase in the center. I need
to sit and read and think today...

Any meeting with Suzy Parker is a treat and her piece last
night about her brother was magnificent. Then Mistress Jane's
biography and thoughts about photography and creativity,
Doug's haunting song about an immigrant from Mexico who
lives now in L.A., and Will's summer trip cancellation. But
really, this morning, Eric's thoughts about teaching first grade
fill my head. If we all really knew how teachers spend their
days and how much time they spend preparing and worrying,
maybe they would start to earn what they are worth. Good
stuff, great group, wonderful writers.

My paltry piece was about Cafe Gratitude ~ I don't care
for that place. Oddly enough, everyone had heard of the
restaurant, so that part was fun. OK, get ready for work!

ah yes, those accents

The Last Detective is yet another mystery series from Great
Britain. We saw the first one last night, after watching our
new Good Penny pitcher serve up a Giants' win in Philadelphia.
Dangerous Davies is a gentle copper who seems to get all the
bad assignments, because he is so nice. Of course he does more
than expected and has solved a cold case along with his guy
friend and this delightful big dog of his. Like the Fevered Brain,
we have trouble understanding some of the lines, but it seems
as the story rolls along, we decipher what they are saying with
ease. Well, maybe not all of it, but enough. Yes, rent it!

the first tuesday

Yesterday I worked out at the Legion of Honor for "free Tuesday"
and I prefer that to the deYoung on the first Tuesday of the month.
I saw 3 people from my old big box days, what a happy surprise!
The Legion is a quiet, classical museum ~ beautiful in that old
world style and I've had French tourists tell me that it is one of
the best and prettiest museums in the world. I am a big fan of
free days, especially when whole families come in to appreciate
the building and the art. Plus, yesterday there was sun. Imagine.

trouble in the burbs

This movie was about 359 times better than I expected. I thought
it was about a bad marriage in the 50's, but in fact it was about
a one-time great relationship with two v. bright people stuck in
suburban Connecticut. The acting was fabulous ~ Kate Winslett
and Leonardo DiCaprio and he is so much more than just a
pretty face these days. A potential Kleenex® film, but I was
too transfixed to cry, I guess. Rent Revolutionary Road now!

we love lil's

One of our favorite hamburger places is Liverpool Lil's out at Lyon
and Lombard, across from the Presidio. Today we had lunch there
to celebrate Ginger's b.day and catch-up on some news and gossip.
Then we walked a bit on colorful Divisadero Street and, behold, it's
starting to feel like nap time. Such a pleasant day off, but aren't
they all?

(A note of condolence to dear Susan who lost her sister, Vicky, last
night. I'm so sorry for you and for her family.)

deep (borrowed) thoughts on a sunday

from The Elegance of the Hedgehog by Muriel Barbery:

In the split second while I saw the stem and the bud drop to the counter I intuited the essence of Beauty. Yes, here I am, a little twelve-and-a-half-year-old brat, and I have been incredibly lucky because this morning all the conditions were ripe: an empty mind, a calm house lovely roses, a rosebud dropping. And that is why I thought of Ronsard's poem, though I didn't really understand it at first: because he talks about time, and roses. Because beauty consists of its own passing, just as we reach for it. It's the ephemeral configuration of things in the moment, when you can see their beauty and their death.

Oh my gosh, I thought, does this mean that this is how we must live our lives? Constantly poised between beauty and death, between movement and its disappearance?

Maybe that's what being alive is all about: so we can track down those moments that are dying.
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ROSES (the poem)

I send you here a wreath of blossoms blown,
And woven flowers at sunset gathered,
Another dawn had seen them ruined, and shed
Loose leaves upon the grass at random strown.
By this, their sure example, be it known,
That all your beauties,
now in perfect flower,
Shall fade as these, and wither in an hour,
Flowerlike, and brief of days, as the flower sown.

Ah, time is flying, lady - time is flying;
Nay, ’tis not time that flies but we that go,
Who in short space shall be in churchyard lying,
And of our loving parley none shall know,
Nor any man consider what we were;
Be therefore kind, my love, whiles thou art fair.

Pierre Ronsard

schedule switch

I opted to close the deYoung tonight, instead of working the 10 to
6 pm shift, which I hate. At least this way I can get a few household
tasks out of the way and we were able to watch Ted Kennedy's
impressive funeral on TV this morning. Not a perfect man, but
such a fine senator ~ now let's pass the health care reform to
honor him. Please.

It is HOT here and SF does not do well in the heat since we have
no AC. Well, the museums have great temperature control, so
that's one more pleasant thing about this job. I remember at the big
box the AC would break down just when we needed it most and
the customers would complain to us, as though we hadn't
noticed that it was 120º in the store.

thanks, fevered brain!

I bought The Lost Painting out at the Legion of Honor, based
solely on my friend Susan's recommendation in her All Of It
blog. I got hooked from page one, maybe because right now
the author is in Rome, but also the writing is just so terrific.
It reads like a novel, like a fine novel. Muni-worthy, for sure,
and I have 3 straight days of buses due to some outlandishly
large concert out at Golden Gate Park. Starting today.

from Will the Poet

(This is from an email that my Tiapos friend Will sent
yesterday. He knows that I get all sort of insane
about baseball, especially this time of year.)

RIDING THE BENCH

Look at those sad sacks harvesting splinters
in their asses at the end of the bench,
the pinch hitters and utility infielders,
the ones with the gawky body language
that says Holy Shit, how’d I end up
in the Bigs, where the fifth starter
throws fastballs in the 90s

and you feel fucking naked in front of the world
if you whiff or even shy away
from an inside fastball, even though
it’s hissing by your earlobe
like an adder sent to deliver
the kiss of death.

They were all stars in the minors,
so many days when they ripped the cover
off the ball, stole second standing up,
turned double plays so graceful
they were known as artists.

But this is their dream, to walk
in a dugout with the stars, to drink
at the same water cooler,
to leap to their feet
when this year’s Sultan swats one
deep, deep into the cheap seats
and they feel, down in their splinter-
punctured asses, that he’s rounding
the impossibly white, immaculate
bases just for them.

Forget the popcorn-littered masses
ginning up the soundtrack.
They only wish they could get that far,
sitting at the end of the bench,
suited up, waiting for their moment
to slap their slugger on the back
and look up at the scoreboard
towards the crooked numbers
that spell We win again.

Will Walker

I could do this!

Alain de Botton

, author of "How Proust Can Change Your Life" and "The Art of Travel," was Heathrow Airport's so-called writer in residence for the week. As reported in the New York Times, de Botton parked himself at a desk in a terminal at the London airport; as he typed away on a laptop, his words appeared on a screen behind him for passers-by to read. De Botton's reflections will be published in a short book, "A Week at the Airport: A Heathrow Diary," 10,000 copies of which will be given free to Heathrow travelers.

(from the Book Section in last Sunday's Chronicle)

remembering reflections

I loved this piece by Jackie Pansari entitled "Reflection on Japan".
There are little Japanese newspaper cut-outs at the bottom of each
glass piece. I simply fell in love and can't give any rational reasons,
so be it. This was at the Burchfield Penney Art Center and yes, I
did buy a couple of items in the gift shoppe.

My inner clock is goofy today, but I'm enjoying the peaceful early
morning hours before I head out to the Legion for a good work day.

buffalo ~ street hockey sunday

The StepRob and I had a few hours to explore downtown Buffalo and there was a big hockey event here with ex-stars and young players and bales of smelly hay and lots of fun, it looked like.

This is Ani DiFranco's Church of Revolutionary Music Babes (or whatever), but it's right downtown and is a big deal. Lots of churches and temples in Buffalo. The downtown is sort of dead, alas, like so many cities across the country.

A wonderful brunch at Betty's on Virginia Street. Even better than Bob Evans!

And then, the great surprise. Rob loves museums. Who knew? This is a
tapestry at the new Burchfield Penney Art Center and we found some
other wonderful art here too. I'll write about another piece tomorrow,
but I wanted to cover the very nice day I had with "the boy". We don't
have a chance to just hang out together and I think it was special for
both of us. Then dinner with Rob and his delightful wife, Sarah, and
early to bed for my 6am flight to SF.

Smooth JetBlue home and a slow de-packing afternoon and a few
little house tasks. I'm so glad I made this family-heavy trip, it was
cause for some trepidation beforehand, but well worth it.

a full day of family, food, beauty

We started the yesterday with a big family breakfast gathering at Bob Evans, a block away from the Red Roof. As of this morning I've had 4 meals here. Who was Bob Evans?

The granddaughter was fabulous and the bat mitzvah was fun and inspirational. There were two rabbis (one female, one male) and both stayed on topic (the g. dot Lindsay) and I thought the ceremony was extremely interesting. It was my first.

After lox and bagels, etc., five of us headed for Niagara Falls. Some rain, some sun and ALL outstanding. We just stayed on the American side, but what views.

I have been to Niagara Falls twice before, but never walked around the
park up here to see so many falls and vistas. We all needed to stretch
our legs and have some time to appreciate this wonder. My step, Nancy,
and I needed some moments for private chats and catch-up and we
found it yesterday, as we strolled and ooooohed and ahhhhhed. Lovely day indeed.

Last night was the party at the country club. Not too many photos, alas,
but there were about 50 young girls all dressed up in delightful finery.
They had their special room and music, glow-stuff, balloons, photo
booth ~ they roamed in groups of 10 or so, and when one of us would
venture into their dance area, they would all leave. It was great to
watch them and know that the g.dot would have this night and day
of special memories with her family and friends.

This morning ~ back to Bob Evans and then some quiet time before I
see Rob and family later. Many goodbye hugs and wet eyes as the rest
of them head for Pittsburgh, Chicago, Utica.

day one in clarence, ny

Rob and I started with coffee, of course. He knows
everyone in town AND their children.

Willow tree in Rob's front yard.

The front yard. No sprinkler system ~ nature does it!

One tends to forget how green the rest of the world is, even in summer.
We had a busy day of running around on errands, but I did get a nap
in before the rest of the family arrived yesterday afternoon. We were
almost late to temple in Buffalo and you know that makes me tense,
but there were a lot of people to organize in assorted "big" SUV-type
cars. The g. dots here are very sweet and fun. Today is Lindsay's Bat
Mitzvah followed by a Kiddush Luncheon and then a party at the
Country Club tonight. Wonderful sleep last night!

more coffee, honey?

It's 8:45am here in Buffalo and I just finished a large breakfast
at Bob Evans down the road. A typical not-SF-like coffee shop
with perky waitresses on the good side of 50 (or 60)? In any
event, my cell rang during the sunnyside up part and it was JetBlue
telling me they would be delivering the "mishandled" bag before
10am today. Oh, double hooray!

I did sleep a bit, after taking inventory of every single item that
might have been lost in the bag. Then I expanded to a shopping
trip to find something to wear to all these family events and it's
amazing that I slept at all. Oh, the mind, the mind.

The youngest stepson, Rob, picked me up at midnight and he really
is a joy. I almost killed him during his teen years, so seeing him
now with the grey hair is a shock. But that same delightful humor
that kept him alive when he was young, was most appreciated
after consecutive hours on planes.

I have experienced lost luggage so many times that I now travel
with a photo and I include the dimensions of my bag. It was a
huge help. And I stay calm. Talk about a nasty job, dealing with
folks with lost luggage.

Weather? A warm almost-drizzle. Real summer.
OK, I need to unpack.

it's all in my mind

I know, I've read the articles. This stuff doesn't work and what do
school teachers know about the immune system? But I do know that
I used to always get sick after being on an airplane, and since I've
been using this, I don't. Those planes are filled with germy people
and Airborne® works for me every time.

Yes, I'll write from Buffalo tomorrow. Thanks, everyone!

just like the old days

I was up this morning at 4am to do some much-needed projects:
online banking, overdue emails, thank you notes, etc. It felt
great to have some time to myself, but of course I'll be yawning
after lunch and beyond.

The JetBlue flight(s) leave tomorrow morning and I'll get into
Buffalo around midnight. The youngest stepson has kindly
offered to do the airport pick-up thing, which is very sweet.
I'm bringing MsBook, so of course I'll be in communication.

One more day of work. I can do it.

learning from tourists

Last night I talked to a family from Florida. On this trip to SF they
had been concentrating on Diego Rivera. The above is from his mural
at City College of SF and they also spoke of another Rivera mural
on Sansome St.. It's bad enough that we haven't been to Alcatraz, but
now that I'm in the art biz, I really need to see these and be able to
recommend them. So we'll have an adventure or two after Buffalo...

don't bother

Midsomer Murders is boring and convoluted. Don't even rent it,
and that's an order. I guess the lesson is that even if everyone has
interesting British accents, the series is not necessarily well
written. Thankfully I was warned beforehand not to get my
hopes up.

lost in paris

As predicted, I am LOVING The Elegance of the Hedgehog by
Muriel Barbery. There are two enchanting main characters:
a 12 year old girl and a concierge in her fifties. They both live
at 7, rue de Grenelle, and at this point they haven't really had
a conversation, but they will. It is one of those books that I
need to read slowly and with care, I should probably even be
taking notes. Occasionally I will read a passage to Husbando,
the ultimate sign of the best-of-best ever books.

I meant to save this novel for the trip to Buffalo next week, but
now I'll have to go book-shopping at the airport.

a week filled with pony love

RR spent a week with Cheyenne at Pony Camp

Thanks, blogmaid, I woke up and thought, "I have nothing/nothing to
post this morning" and here were your photos! RR and a few of her
lifelong (a little joke we adults banter about) girl friends attended this
fun camp and not only did they ride a lot, they learned to do all the
horse-work that is necessary when animals with big brown eyes are
involved. The blogmaid herself even braided a horse tail and of course
was delighted with that task. One of the little girls (not our RR) cried
and cried because she had to leave her horse. Kindergarten starts on
September 8th, so this was a little end-of-summer vacation treat.

guilt free zone

A perfect day off. First Dr. Wong actually complimented me on
recent tooth and gum care! Then Ginger and I thoroughly enjoyed
the Squeak Carnwath exhibit at the Oakland Museum. I had been
perusing a book about her while working at the DeYoung, so I
was prepared for her wonderful paintings. One for instance,
was a large white canvas with her handwritten words, "I am sorry.
I am very sorry. I am sorry" scribbled about a million times on
the work. She is also big on circles with the words "guilt free
zone" and is there a woman (person?) alive who couldn't use
that? Alas, the Oakland Museum closes for re-mo on August 23,
so if you want to see Squeak, you need to scamper.

Then Ginger and I had a wonderful lunch at a Vietnamese
Restaurant at 10th and Harrison and talked/talked/talked
until almost dinner time. I am rich with friends.

new readers, new friends

I'm off to see my dentist, Right Wing Wong, in Oakland this morning.
Then I'm meeting my oldest friend, Ginger, for a Museum (!) visit
and lunch. Maybe a short walk. We have so much to catch up on...

But I want to say one thing about work. I've met some amazing new
friends there and what's wonderful is that I still am in contact with
my Borders friends too. Just think, if I were incredibly wealthy and
didn't have to work, I'd never know these amazing/fun/bright
folks and it would be MY loss. On the other hand, did I need a
cash register freeze when closing last night at the Legion? No,
but I learned a little more about "the system", or lack thereof.

The Trader Joe's bag is in the hallway because a week from today
is the trip to Buffalo, NY, for the g.dot's baht mitzvah. When I
don't travel I get anxious about travel. Solution? Travel more!

lunch with friends

The highlight of my day off yesterday was lunch with Husbando, The
Great Plotnik and Ducknik at Aperto on Potrero Hill. (Yes, Karen, your
name came up often, and with love.) Today is Barb's b.day and we
enjoyed catching up with our lives, because we haven't seen our friends
enough lately. Full-time work takes its toll, no?

When Husbando and I had our own business (the Great American Dream)
back a few decades ago, we had an office down on Connecticut Street
and lunch out was our salvation, and business write-offs, of course. We
know all these restaurants and shops and still love The Hill. There is
a special table for two at Aperto that we still consider "our table".

Owning your own business is the toughest job in the world. Ours was
Fantastic Sam's, haircare. We were franchisors and franchisees and we
took it in the chin and lived through the whole thing. When Mistress
Jane talks about her long days and nights of running her business,
the memories are as sharp as pin pricks all over my skin.

my next book

"A high wire performance", says the L.A. Times about The
Elegance of the Hedgehog by Muriel Barbery. Next I'll put
it on Facebook to see if there are a few less dramatic
comments, perhaps.

but you aren't making any sense

The Soloist is an amazing movie. Jamie Foxx becomes this
completely disoriented homeless musician, and Robert Downey,
Jr. and Catherine Keener are also excellent. I was shocked at
the scenes of downtown L.A. with their population of 90,000
homeless. Imagine. This is a true story by the L.A. Times reporter
Steve Lopez and I strongly recommend that you Flix® it.

I dealt with a lot of unbalanced homeless people when I worked
at the big box in downtown SF. They can be scary. As I result, no
matter how broke I am, I always/always send money to Glide
because they do their best to feed and house the men and women
whom we are all responsible for, in my opinion. I liked when one
of the case workers told Lopez to stop analyzing and trying to
label his friend. Oh, yes, about 3 Kleenex® were destroyed while
watching this film, but well worth it. Now where's my checkbook?

penguin to penguin

Today is another Sunday No Car day. From the Academy of
Sciences in Golden Gate Park to the Zoo. Thankfully I'm
working out at the Legion of Honor, so I won't have to
face road closures this morning. These have been very
successful, and I'm sure we'll see more Car Free Sundays
in SF next year.

I'm tired after closing the De Young stores last night.
But it's always about 4 million times easier than the
horror of closing the big box and getting home at midnight
or later. How did I do that? I'm shocked that I didn't get
more customer complaints than I did at Borders because
I can get down right snippy when the store is closing and
folks are loitering. Errrrrrr, shopping.

the pink paper is important

I'm a woman of few words, except when it comes to parking in SF.
Last week notthat over there had a post about the clunker parked
in front of his home and how it took up two spaces. Yes, I know,
the space in front of Casa Verde isn't really OUR exclusive parking
place, but sheeeeez, could we park there every once in a while?

I have three pet peeves:
1) people who only use their garages for storage and then park their
car(s) on the street. Get rid of your excess stuff. Donate.
2) families that have more than 2 cars ~ really irritating.
3) I hate the big monster SUVs. Hate them. Ban them.

So, SF has a web site now and we can print out our warnings!
This one reminds the driver that there is a 72 hour limit or they
could face a $75 fine. Much better than my old hand-written
"are you EVER going to move this huge, ugly SUV?" signs and
probably more effective.

(The link isn't working here today. Use Safari and
try www.sfmta.com/cms/penf/13444.html)

congratulations!

To Sonia Sotomayor, our newest Supreme Court Justice. She is
by no means a radical leftie (drat), but we know she will make
an impact. Here's to more women and minorities in positions
of power. (Hello, is this a recording?)

enough with the racist stuff

We watched Gran Torino the other night and I need to write it
down here as this blog is also my Dear Diary. It was violent, but
what bothered me most was all the racist name-calling. Yes,
I know it is a time and place thing, but I think they overdid
that a bit. There was, thankfully, less blood-and-bullets than
I expected and I did like the plot line and the next door neighbors.

how late it is...

I had to scurry this morning for an early meeting and my inner clock
isn't as "good" as it was when I worked for the big box. I like to post
in the morning, but I didn't even have time to open the MsBook
cover before I made my lunch (deviled ham wich), gobbled my
blueberries and picked up a fellow worker at 7:20 am.

OK, the photo here is from yesterday. One of the best things about
living in SF is that there always seems to be something to discover.
When I work up in the 9th floor Tower at the deYoung, customers
point to a nearby green hill and ask what it is. Our cheat sheet says
it's the Grand View Park and you can see that it is well named. If
you want to explore, it's 14th Avenue and Moraga Street. We
lucked out with a clear view and could see forever and beyond...

catching up with the kidlets

Here we have Neti and Frank's grand twins ~ Sam and Ben at 2 days old.

The adorable Kingston, Dancing Jen's nephew extraordinaire.

RR went to Disneyland last week and had a dinosaur painted on her face.

back to the fifties

I'm enjoying The Story of a Marriage by Andrew Sean Greer who
also wrote The Confessions of Max Tivoli. The setting is the
Sunset District here in San Francisco and we have an innocent
and dutiful housewife and a mysterious husband. Then a
stranger...but I'm not there yet. Yes, it's in paperback now.

more fun from Great Britain

The Invisibles ~ two aging thieves retire to a fishing village, but find
that they miss the money and excitement of their former occupation.
From the Flix®, of course. Perfect after a busy day of retail. This was
a TV program so we have 3 discs to enjoy.

a city of foodies

There is a hot new restaurant in town and we joined the line last night
at 5:30 pm for dinner. Name? Flour + Water, so perhaps you can guess
that pasta and pizza are their main dinner choices. We did get a good
table for four (with Neti and Frank) and we were not disappointed.
We have watched this restaurant being built for (it seems) years at
20th and Harrison, across from Gratitude (which we don't care for).
Call us ingrates.

Flour + Water features a beautiful warm wooden interior with tables
not too close together and a high ceiling so we could actually hear
one another speak. Husbando and Frank started with sardines
which they loved, and I enjoyed my pear salad. Then I had pizza
and the others ordered different pastas and no one was even
a smidgen disappointed. We shared one pistachio dessert and
excellent coffee. The place was packed, but we didn't feel rushed
or crowded. We'll be back!