Sunday, April 30, 2017
First we went to SFMoma for a special Members Only night. That was
great and not very crowded. Seeing an exhibit twice is a good idea for
me, and Carlini hadn't seen the Matisse/Diebenkorn even once, so it was a
treat for him. A beautiful day in SF, as you can see.
Then we hopped in a Lyft and went to Don Ramon's for dinner. Nurse
Carlini used to be a waiter there and he is much loved by the owners
and staff, as you can see.
Saturday, April 29, 2017
Wonderful British humor on Amazon Prime. Catastrophe is the story
of an American man and an Irish woman who now have two little
less-than-perfect children and daily struggles to keep their marriage
together. Excellent writing and fine acting too. Set in London and
yes, that makes it even more special.
Friday, April 28, 2017
Thursday, April 27, 2017
|Sarah, Eric and Dougo|
Last night was another great Tiapos over at Suzy's charming home in Oakland.
We had assorted unhealthy snacks and the most unforgettable piece was by
Suzy who recently hiked this dangerous and horrible slippery trail in Hawaii.
I had nightmares about her activities during the night. Thankfully the Giants
beat the Dodgers and I could bounce back to that happiness between Suzy's
slips and tumbles.
Wednesday, April 26, 2017
"What lips my lips have kissed, and where, and why"
by Edna St. Vincent Millay (1892-1950)
by Edna St. Vincent Millay (1892-1950)
What lips my lips have kissed, and where, and why,
I have forgotten, and what arms have lain
Under my head till morning; but the rain
Is full of ghosts tonight, that tap and sigh
Upon the glass and listen for reply,
And in my heart there stirs a quiet pain
For unremembered lads that not again
Will turn to me at midnight with a cry.
Thus in the winter stands the lonely tree,
Nor knows what birds have vanished one by one,
Yet knows its boughs more silent than before:
I cannot say what loves have come and gone,
I only know that summer sang in me
A little while, that in me sings no more.
Arthur Smith Comments:One of the great pleasures in re-reading Millay’s sonnet “What Lips My Lips
Have Kissed, and Where, and Why” is encountering its complexity again.
Millay chose one of the oldest and most venerated of literary forms—think
of Eliot’s “Tradition and the Individual Talent”—in which to declare her
independence from gender roles and general decorum that she found
so stifling. In so doing, she extended the range of the sonnet while
challenging some of its basic assumptions.
It is important to remember Millay in her own era. This sonnet was
published in 1922 and later included in The Harp Weaver, for which she
received the Pulitzer Prize in 1923. James Joyce’s Ulysses (1922),
Eliot’s The Waste Land (1922), Wallace Stevens’s Harmonium (1923), and
Pound’s Cantos (begun in 1924) were already winning the day for Modernism,
and poems such as Hart Crane’s “My Grandmother’s Love Letters” (1926)
posed the unanswered, and perhaps unanswerable, question of how one
deals with memory, with sentimentality, with aspects that make us human.
Tuesday, April 25, 2017
Monday, April 24, 2017
The SF Giants currently have the worst record of any baseball team. It
is so discouraging. The blue scum-sucking Dodgers arrive in town and
their goal is to humiliate us further. Argh. Thank goodness for the
Warriors who are in the playoffs and doing very well.
Sunday, April 23, 2017
I really enjoyed the two hour Town Hall meeting yesterday with State
Senator Scott Wiener and State Assembly Members Ting and Chiu.
It was held in the auditorium at Mission High ~ lots of young and old
folks in the audience and since the three men are all progressives they
were singing to the appreciative choir. So no yelling or rancor like
when the GOP appears to face people who worry about healthcare
and the environment. Big push for Senate Bill 562 - Healthy California.
The March for Science was yesterday too, but since I'm still on clean-up
from this cold I felt it best not to try to do everything.
Saturday, April 22, 2017
The new director (Max from Germany) is bringing a little whimsy to the
staid old Legion of Honor. I like the whimsical installations and it's time
that place was shaken up a bit. When I sent these pix to a friend she
thought that I'd been to the Tate Modern. Now let's see how the donors
react to this new art...
Friday, April 21, 2017
We finally hit the Legion of Honor yesterday for the exceptional Monet
(The Early Years) exhibit and it was wonderful indeed. I had heard that
the best time to go was during the late afternoon when the buses of people
and school kids had departed, so we followed this very good advice and
were able to see all of these magnificent paintings without much interference.
Thursday, April 20, 2017
Wednesday, April 19, 2017
What? Finally? Sunshine after weeks of grey, damp and ugly weather?
I walked in my nabe, up to the post office at Van Ness and 21st Street.
It's a bit of a grubby area and that's OK by me. Too much sanitizing
of a city seems to justify high real estate prices. I had my latte in the
sun and as I was walking home this splendid sidewalk garden almost
knocked me over. Welcome Spring ~ not a day too early.
Tuesday, April 18, 2017
Monday, April 17, 2017
We are having a great time watching Shetland ~ streaming from Flix®.
It's a detective story so we do get a few murders and lots of lies and
emotions. The Shetland Islands are officially under Scottish rule (Jen's
current favorite country), but they think of themselves as Norwegian
citizens ~ the Islands have been passed back and forth many times.
No ponies so far, but lots of ferry rides between islands and the peet
farms are weird. Yes, highly recommended so do watch this.
Sunday, April 16, 2017
Saturday, April 15, 2017
We are all suckers for the gruff-old-man turns into nice-guy stories,
aren't we? A Man Called Ove is extra special because it gives us
a nice look into Sweden and how people live there. I believe I loved
this movie more than Husbando did, but that is often the case with
the really good movies without gruesome murders, isn't it? Do
note the cat at Ove's feet here. (Streamed on Amazon Prime)
Friday, April 14, 2017
Thursday, April 13, 2017
This is a quiet movie celebrating love and the simple life. Paterson is a
bus driver and a poet who is infatuated with his adorable wife. Some
might find it slow, but to me Paterson is filled with richness and warmth.
It is now out on DVD via the Flix®.
Wednesday, April 12, 2017
My dear friend Linda walks at the ocean in SF everyday. She has the eye
and she has a camera and a blog and I just needed to have her photo for
my blog. Today. I did not ask permission, but I do give lots of credit
and thank you talented woman by the sea.
Tuesday, April 11, 2017
|from the cast of Hamilton|
|the beautiful passover table|
Opening Day and we won! The only worry is that our team leader
Buster Posey was hit in the head with a fast ball. I planted myself
in front of the TV and praised the game of baseball all afternoon.
Last night was another spectacular seder dinner at the Great
Plotniks. It felt good to laugh and get the Jews out of Egypt one
more time. So nice to gather with these friends once again.
Monday, April 10, 2017
I know you remember Lucybelle from my museum life. We all went to her
wedding and then the baby shower and here is the most recent photo of her
daughter Flora, there on the left. The family has settled right outside of
Portland now, buying a home and working hard with enough time to
enjoy the great Pacific Northwest. After living here out in "the Avenues"
Lucy needs to be by an ocean which they didn't have when they lived
in Indiana for a year or so.
Sunday, April 09, 2017
(Now for some REAL poetry to celebrate this month ~ it used to be my
favorite when I worked in the bookstores.)
Out of Some Other ParadiseAnd people walked out of churches and bars,
cafés and apartments, cities, towns, photographs,
someone's Friday night party,
someone they once knew or slept with.
They walked out of meetings and dinners,
out of lives, on each other, on love
and rarely on time.
Some walked out of dark places,
slow places, strange places, places
they wouldn't go back to, places they never did find.
Then did. And walked out again
for the third, fourth, fifth time perhaps.
People walked out through doors
and through letters, through looks across rooms,
gifts that gave nothing of what they withheld,
what they couldn't give back. Then others
just walked out on everything. That was that.
What can be said about what we do to each other.
What street, I don't remember,
on the way to someone's going-away,
I saw you, as if in the middle of a sentence,
snow: your new evening clothes.
Together and by Ourselves
Copper Canyon Press
Saturday, April 08, 2017
Jane was a poet and inspired me to try my hand. I wrote this ten years
ago and feel safe to post it now that I don't have bosses to worry about.
My second real grown-up job was as a copywriter at Capwell's in
Oakland. I am still friends with Ginger and Susan, whom I met there,
waaaaaay back when...
It was here that I learned that friends
are more important than corporations
that nothing is fair in business or, I'm
sorry to tell you, the world beyond
that some people work harder than others
and bosses were not promoted because
they wee necessarily smarter or kinder
than others, in fact just the opposite it seemed
then, and probably now, but I don't really
think about it anymore because it doesn't matter
to me one bit and I've wasted too many precious
hours worrying about business and losing sleep
over things over which I have absolutely no
control, on the other hand I did learn more about
myself and others during my working career
and one thing I know for sure is that, damn it all,
no matter what the job, it's always the people,
not the tasks, and delegation comes easier if
you give them a little humor and praise along
with the tedious assignment that was due yesterday
Friday, April 07, 2017
Yesterday I climbed back on BART to visit Carlini and we had lunch in
downtown Walnut Creek and then went to his home for coffee and
sweets and I got to visit with Ms. Puma who is a total delight. She
doesn't eat flowers and we talked about our previous cats who did and
how fortunate he is with this adorable Calico. She might have a sister
or brother soon, how cool would that be?
Thursday, April 06, 2017
Wednesday, April 05, 2017
Every year I just have to see Macy's Flower Show and every year I am
underwhelmed. Carnival was the theme this year and it was better than
no flower show, but we all know that traditional retail suffers and this
year tourism is down because of travel bans. A very small line for the
cable cars and Peet's seems to be the busiest spot in town.
Then last night we dined at Tartine Manufactory on Alabama Street.
You can see that we were early (surprise!) and I can assure you that
they were busy by the time we left. Delicious and unusual food and
wonderful service. Home in time for baseball and a WIN.
Tuesday, April 04, 2017
There are only 7 episodes of Big, Little Lies and the finale might be the
best that I've ever experienced on TV. So go for HBO On Demand and
have a heavenly binge experience with Laura Dern, Reese Witherspoon,
Nicole Kidman and other familiar faces. The setting is in our very own
Monterey and with a little grey weather you can justify some daytime TV.
I might do a rerun on that last episode today, despite sunshine.
Monday, April 03, 2017
We had seen Noises Off years ago and I was a bit worried that we
wouldn't enjoy it as much or laugh during all the chaos of slamming
doors, missing sardines and constant chaos. No worries, it was
just what we needed and we both applaud the hard working actors
and imaginative sets and costumes at the SF Playhouse. We had
a wonderful afternoon and came home smiling despite the Giants...
Sunday, April 02, 2017
...thank goodness. Ginger and I went to the Coliseum in Oakland yesterday
for the final exhibition game. We won. It was a beautiful day, as you
can see, and the A's have upgraded their old stadium. We sat in the bleacher
section surrounded by the opposition, but they are fun fans and nice as
can be. (Not like the blue scum-sucking Dodger fans.) Today is the
official Opening Day and our Giants are in Arizona. Play ball!
Saturday, April 01, 2017
I used to sit up here to relax with coffee and/or lunch when I worked at
the deYoung. But it is even more beautiful this Spring because I don't
have to rush back to greet customers with a smile (or disdain). Stow
Lake is a one mile circle, flat and easy to navigate. Lots of benches and
a decent hot dog which Husbando and I appreciated yesterday before
our walk. There is so much to see: turtles, raccoons, ducks, geese
and people of all sizes and colors. I like to watch the folks climbing
in and out of the rental boats while we soak up the sun. Delightful.
Friday, March 31, 2017
Time for a food post so you know that we both still cook. Restaurants
preferred, of course. On Sunday nights we get to have BACON (five
slices each) and I have the joy of not making a salad. But what to go
with the bacon, other than decaf espresso? Waffles, pancakes or
French toast work, but last Sunday I made a German pancake. First
time. Last time. But it's pretty to look at ~ cardboard flavor. I grew up
in a home featuring big Sunday lunch after church, still in our dressy
clothes. Then always a light Sunday night dinner, casual. I am reliving
those not-so-great days, it seems. Or is it just the bacon? Hmmmmm.
Thursday, March 30, 2017
I started missing the deYoung recently so I took the plunge on Tuesday and
returned for the first time since I retired. The Danny Lyon photography
exhibit is terrific and I really liked the new installation in Wilsey Court
too. Leonardo Drew is the artist and it is HUGE and impressive. It was
good to see some ex-coworkers, but the art is what I missed a lot.
Wednesday, March 29, 2017
We finally saw Moonlight Monday night ~ a DVD from the Flix®. It
is everything and more ~ sad, warm, tender and so overwhelming that
I had to take a ME day yesterday, all to myself, just to ruminate and recover.
Yes, that worked, but it is a movie that will never leave me. Glorious.
Tuesday, March 28, 2017
|Wool: Nature's Technology|
|exotic wood and string elephants|
First we had brunch at Serpentine (great!) and then we hit the Museum of
Craft and Design to view Felt Decoded (thought about you, Anna) which
explains, with detailed photos, how felt is made. Then Wendy Maruyama
and the wildLIFE Project ~ we must preserve these magnificent animals
who are slaughtered for their ivory tusks. Such beauty.
Monday, March 27, 2017
Sunday, March 26, 2017
We took advantage of the sunshine yesterday and covered our back deck
with tomatoes and flowers. I still have a little dirt under my fingernails
and that feels good. Early Girls work best for us and you will be able
to witness the growth, as per usual. Yes, the cages are a bit premature,
but we are optimists ~ always.