Showing posts with label holidays. Show all posts
Showing posts with label holidays. Show all posts

Monday, January 19, 2026

Civil Rights Day


 A THOUGHT FOR TODAY:

Never, never be afraid to do what’s right, especially if the well-being of a person or animal is at stake. Society’s punishments are small compared to the wounds we inflict on our soul when we look the other way. -Martin Luther King Jr., civil-rights leader (15 Jan 1929-1968)

Monday, December 29, 2025

yay ~ a Scottish detective


 Mission accomplished yesterday ~ this little house is free of red and green baubles and bangles. Flat spaces re-emerged and yes, I did organize the big plastic holiday box. Done. My reward was to begin the three seasons of Karen Pirie on Prime. Happiness (well, satisfaction) reigns on many levels this morning.

Sunday, December 28, 2025

slowly and surely


 This year I will ORGANIZE the holiday decor when I put it away. This year I will give excess ribbons and bags to the Salvation Army. This year I will not just toss everything into a big plastic bin. Even though I didn't have a tree I still brought lots of red and green treasures up from the garage. All sort of haphazard, but all sort of pretty. Now I'm ready to go back to normal and so I am reading the Sunday paper and taking a few things down at a time. There will be rhyme and reason in the put-backs this year. Maybe...

Tuesday, December 23, 2025

'tis quite wonderful


 Yes, cards from near and far. I do love seeing and hearing all the news from friends and relatives every year. Memories from my youth ~ twice a day mail deliveries during the holiday season. Snail mail will always be special to me and I love when young people (and oldies!) write to me the old fashioned way. 

Friday, December 12, 2025

holiday touches




 I went to Costco yesterday for some peppermint bark and a lot more sugar which I do NOT need. I saw the ugly Grinch there but actually the other shoppers and staff were all friendly and nice. We love that Costco is suing the Trump administration, of course. 

Tuesday, December 09, 2025

we love the aroma



 I bought some overpriced green sprigs (technically probably little branches) to bring the smell of the holidays into our home since I don't DO the tree anymore. Annabelle was a bit too appreciative and I keep an eye on her after watching all the fun videos of cats and xmas trees on Instagram.

Tuesday, December 24, 2024

good tidings


 I'm still a fan of holiday cards and even the Christmas Letters with sometimes too many details. And this morning I am listening to the traditional carols which used to drive me bonkers when I worked in retail. I am mellowing out ~ good or bad? 

Sunday, December 22, 2024

holiday reading


 Neighbor Heidi gifted me with a small treasure of three Truman Capote stories. You will remember that we saw A Christmas Memory and this also includes One Christmas and The Thanksgiving Visitor. I might have read these once but they definitely deserve some of my fireplace time this season. And sorry for the poor photo, stuff happens...

Friday, December 20, 2024

we got trees




 I bet there are a few needles in my carpets from Christmases past, but it is just too much trouble to have a tree these days. I do have lights and some holiday decor to cheer me here and today I offer you the tree of the Blogmaid (with Cody cat) and in the middle we get to admire Sister Jane's beautiful tree and of course you can see her SF cable car ornament, right? 

Monday, December 16, 2024

Downtown! Theatre!


 I'm happy to report that SF Downtown was packed with happy shoppers yesterday. There were lines checking out at Macy's Union Square and a ton of families enjoying the chilly Sunday. Neti and I had fun at Waitress at the SF Playhouse and then I hopped in a Lyft as I was late to the book club meeting at Suze's ~ that was festive indeed and I shall report on that at a later date. A lot going on and it must be the happy holiday season. Yup.

Saturday, December 14, 2024

tv catch-up time



 Well, I am finally caught up with two of my favorites: Shrinking and Bad Sisters, both on Apple TV. And thanks again to Terri, I am seriously considering switching from AT&T (which is so much better than Comcast) to YouTube TV but I can't make any big decisions while Christmas has me by the throat. Deep breath...

Wednesday, December 11, 2024

A Christmas Memory


 
Heidi was my date last night as Doug and Barb treated us to this wonderful reading at the tiny Theatre Rhinoceros in the Castro. Honestly, it reminded me of the old/old days in SF when Bill and I would go to the small clubs and venues as we grew to love this amazing and diverse city.  Truman Capote's story is filled with nostalgia and warmth and all that entails during this season. Many of us used Kleenex® and it was beautifully read by Sandra Schlechter. Our old writing friends Martha and George and their son and his finance were there too and yes, the eventing was magical. Doug won the grand restaurant prize in the raffle and hooray for that!

Tuesday, May 28, 2024

Memorial Day celebration




 Jen and Stacie (in photo with two dogs) over fed me last night with all the traditional American foods that we love: potato salad, corn, baked beans, BBQ chicken, roast beef...way too much delicious food. These women are very, very good to me, but I do not complain. In fact I walked home happily last night with a full bag of To Go cartons. Yes, I am spoiled.

Tuesday, March 26, 2024

now that Purim's here


 The grogger is pictured above. I learn so much about Israel and the Jewish way of life when I read Joseph Zitt's daily newsletter "as if in dreams". Here from a couple of days ago:

After supper, my family and I head downstairs to the synagogue at the House of a Hundred Grandmothers. Purim has begun. It's time for the ceremonial reading of Megillat Esther, the Book of Esther.

There aren't many men there. Even with several visitors, we still have to rustle up a minyan of ten.

The women's section, however, is crowded. All the chairs that have been set out are occupied. Wheelchairs fill much of the rest of the space. Walkers and the wheelchairs create a traffic jam getting into and out of the synagogue. When enough people gather, they always do.

Some of the House staff are there, handing out groggers1, as well as beautifully illustrated pamphlets of the text and relevant blessings.

Once everyone's there, a member of the staff introduces what's going to happen. She thanks the guest from Chabad who will be doing the reading.

The reader chants the opening blessings and starts the reading itself. Like the Torah, it's read from a scroll. Unlike, the Torah, the scroll is folded rather than rolled, as if it were a letter being read.

The reading is simple, without either the pomp or forced revelry I remember from the readings in the States. It helps that just about everyone can read along and understands what's being said. No one has to translate or explain what we're hearing.

The melody of the reading seems a bit more ornate than Torah readings. It may be that the tropes for reading this text are more melismatic.2 The reader chants a bit more slowly and more clearly than I'm used to, which helps bring this out. I also have the sense that, from what I can read and remember, more of the words have fancy tropes than usually occur.

Almost everyone has groggers. We swirl or rattle them at the appropriate points. Other people stomp their feet. It all makes a massive racket.

There's a bit of a mix-up at the end. The staff member gets up and starts to announce the additional reading tomorrow while, behind her, the reader launches into one more blessing. The women wave at the staff member. She realizes what has happened and pauses while the last blessing is chanted. No crisis. Everything gets sorted out amiably.

When it's done, we hand back our groggers and texts. We walk or roll out to the lobby, where the staff has set out grape juice and hamantaschen. The reader performs the brief Havdalah ceremony now that Shabbat has ended. I'm not sure what he's doing at first, since his tradition uses a much longer text than I'm used to.

Saturday, December 23, 2023

traditions


 The sending and receiving of holiday cards in this age of texts and emails is one of the great pleasures of the season for me. From far away and next door ~ each card counts and brings joy.

Monday, December 18, 2023

we writers can party!






 Doug and Barb hosted our annual Tiapos/Fluff holiday party yesterday and we laughed and cried as we read our work and made fun of each other. I will publish the group photo (on Barb's camera) later, but here are a few happy pictures for this rainy Monday. 

Sunday, December 17, 2023

snails and low tea




 Dear Dancing Jen treated me to a luscious escargot and steak lunch at Le Central yesterday. Oh, yum. So good to catch up with my friend who has traveled to exotic places since last we met. And then some neighbors gathered around my fake fireplace in the afternoon for tea and talk and much needed laughter. There is stress this time of year, perhaps you've noticed?

Friday, December 15, 2023

time for a change


 The smell-good evergreen wreaths in my nabe are starting to turn brown already so I decided to go with this fake feather beauty and an old ornament on our front door. This makes me very happy and I have no idea why. 

Thursday, December 14, 2023

more than a spoonful of sugar




 Gini has the perfect Victorian SF home for tea and scones and cookies and candy. The book club gathered yesterday to trash tRump at our annual Christmas tea. A lovely afternoon for sure.

Monday, December 11, 2023

in the neighborhood



 Lights and holiday colors here ~ I always look forward to when my neighbors across the street switch on all the white lights. The top photo is an outside (!) tree on Precita Avenue. I had a good walk to meet Terri for coffee yesterday afternoon. City love persists...