They call me: stein, msmas, mush, m.a., mary ann, mary lou, mary om, or just plain mary (and you may too)
Friday, November 21, 2025
it's brisk in Frisco
I bundled up for a walk in the nabe yesterday afternoon. Cold, clean air. Lovely. Handy Jan worked for a while on some home projects ~ how lucky I am to have her in my life. Nothing too big or too small to ask of her. And today Doug and Barb will deliver folding chairs for the event next week, aka Thanksgiving. Our reward will be lunch and I already know that this will be another fine day.
Thursday, November 20, 2025
lunch at Perry's
I met Ken (the Person) down on the Embarcadero for a really nice lunch after a fine solo walk from 4th Street to this classic (dare I say iconic?) restaurant. Good food, good conversation and I'm happy to report that Perry's was packed and my SF streets bustling with people. An excellent Wednesday.
Wednesday, November 19, 2025
it's looking good ~ yay!
This morning I finally allowed myself to future trip a bit and behold, I believe we will have nice weather next week when Sis is here with her friend, Melinda. They arrive on Sunday and I am very excited and happy and eager to show off my city once again. But best of all is seeing my sister Jane again.
Tuesday, November 18, 2025
grey day in warm house
I hope the rains are gone for our visitors next week, but in the meantime I had a lovely at-home Monday and I do recommend Table for Two by Amor Towles. A series of clever, fun, sophisticated stories set in NYC and Los Angeles.
Monday, November 17, 2025
scallops by the sea
I was yearning for very expensive scallops yesterday, so Mr. and Ms. Blogmaid treated Neti and me to a lavish lunch at Nick's down in Pathetica. Such a wonderful old fashioned restaurant. We had lots of laughs and I tasted my first fried pickle, so you know the day was a success. And may I mention the warm brownie with ice cream? Of course I must. With many, many thanks ~ a delightful Sunday for sure.
Sunday, November 16, 2025
La Traviata
This old restaurant on Mission Street used to be a favorite and it somehow survived Covid and it was a lovely experience last night. Pat, Neti and I opened La Traviata at 5pm and enjoyed the quiet until the place filled around 7:30 and we could no longer hear each other. But so happy that they are busy and the pasta was excellent and we three had a delightful time. The rest of my day? Lazy. Self-indulgent.
Saturday, November 15, 2025
this gift of time
Texts, emails, cards and gifts for my birthday today. I'm enjoying an extra long fireside morning and feeling deep gratitude for so many wonderful people in my life. Dinner with friends tonight and lunch with Mr. and Ms. Blogmaid tomorrow. I am living the good life, no, make that GREAT.
Friday, November 14, 2025
rainy day lunch
I met Gini yesterday at the Magic Flute on Sacramento Street and we had some good catch-up talk in this lovely setting. Also yummy food, should you be interested.
Thursday, November 13, 2025
poetry on a rainy Thursday
Burning Down the Waffle House
The person at Waffle Housedrops my card and starts crying.She’s here alone until 2. It’s 2.Kind of hard to avoid the factthat I am part of the problem.With that in mind, how muchof a tip is a good tip, and whereis the line between a good tipand a messiah complex?Trying to quickly stop crying,she asks me, do you ever justget so tired? If she wants toburn down the Waffle House,I’ll go get some kerosene.There are other sandwiches.I offer her Advil. I don’t knowwhat else to do. She declines.Anyway, she says, shakingher head. She’ll be able to sitonce the restaurant is empty,meaning, of course, when I leave.
~ Danny Caine
Wednesday, November 12, 2025
Lily is leaving
Top photo ~ Heather and Lily lived up the hill and Heidi and I would have delightful get togethers with these fun and energetic young women. Now Heather lives out in the burbs with her new baby and Lily (bottom photo) is moving to Denver. We had a lot to talk about over at Rob and Heidi's last night and we all agreed that Lily is doing the right thing, but we will miss her a lot. I reminded her that Emma's Room is available when she visits SF again, and she will.
Tuesday, November 11, 2025
pre-planning and the google doc
Sis will be here in two weeks (!) and plans are underway for a festive Thanksgiving dinner is my little home. Grand daughter Samantha is in charge of food and has created a google document which I do not want to see, thank you anyway. All I have to do is the set-up and making sure the big doodle, Harlow, doesn't eat the little cat, Annabelle. Plus table set-up, my favorite part.
Monday, November 10, 2025
book club in Marin
We met at Shelly's beautiful home in San Anselmo. Our book? Let the Northern Lights Erase your Name and we all had a lot to say about this unusual novel. Some good, some not so. When we got home we were all invited to Heidi's for Rob's fabulous paella. So a very social day for this blogger. The cat known as Annabelle was not pleased with my long day away and today already she clings.
Sunday, November 09, 2025
our Giant hero
I was happy to learn that Bruce Bochy is returning to the SF giants in an advisory role. He helped us get to all those (3) World Series and he has such a nice, gruff sense of humor. He belongs here.
Saturday, November 08, 2025
celebrating Dodger Doug
We went to Woodhouse yesterday, a small fish restaurant on Fillmore Street for Doug's belated birthday and enjoyed the yummy Dungeness crab (top) and shrimp/avocado sandwiches while we caught up on our busy lives because they had been, once again, traveling. A very happy day indeed.
Friday, November 07, 2025
she made us proud
I'll never forget how she publicly tore up tRump's State of the Union speech back when he was trying to destroy our country during his first term. Thank you, Nancy Pelosi. Good job!
Thursday, November 06, 2025
back to Tuesday
The Manet & Morisot exhibit is very well done and already lots of art lovers are heading to the Legion of Honor and I joined them on Tuesday. Excellent. After I strolled around and oohed and ahhhed (silently) I had a fine, inexpensive burger at Bill's Place on Clement Street. Such a nice day. When you go, be sure to see the video first, or check it out online.
Wednesday, November 05, 2025
major victories for the USA
Last night's election outcome was quite wonderful with lots of big and small (all important) wins because the anti-Trump movement is gaining momentum and I am feeling relief this morning.
Tuesday, November 04, 2025
the joy, the sorrow
I'm still recovering from the 2025 World Series, maybe the most exciting ever. I loved every inning, I wanted the Jays to win. I would not have missed it for the world. Congrats to the damn Dodgers.
“Baseball is but a game, glitter on dirt. It is three outs and four bases and nine innings (sometimes 18) and a bunch of millionaires grunting on your TV screen. It is a nice summer day, a hot dog and a few cold ones. It’s an expensive jersey that you didn’t need but bought anyway. And it is all, compared to the realities of life, completely trivial. It’s a beautiful distraction. Neither the actions nor the outcomes actually matter. In other words: It’s all only as important and as meaningful as it makes us feel. And on Saturday, this heavenly, cruel, perfectly imperfect sport sent any and all who interacted with World Series Game 7 through every emotion the human experience has to offer. Fans from Saskatchewan to Southern California, from Toronto to Tokyo, were held captive by the game’s wondrous, tortuous, addictive power. It was, in every way, the best baseball has to offer.” Game 7 took fans everywhere in an off-the-rails thrill ride.~ Jake Mintz
Monday, November 03, 2025
Emma Thompson rocks
I skipped 60 Minutes last night to avoid watching and hearing tRump lie his ass off once again. What a delight to enjoy two episodes of Down Cemetery Road with Emma Thompson and Ruth Wilson, two favorite actors of mine. Apple tv does it again. Win!
Sunday, November 02, 2025
one glorious Saturday
And all thanks to Dancing Jen. First, lunch at Chao Pescao right next to the Tenderloin Gardens where people were working and enjoying the sunshine. So lovely to catch up with my dear friend. Then we walked over to the Orpheum to see the outstanding production of Suffs. Oh, see this if you possibly can, it was a fabulous production and I was inspired by the music and the message. We owe so much to those brave women who fought for years so women now have the freedom to vote. And then the reminder that the 14th Amendment has never passed. So much work still to do. What a lovely day, I am so grateful.
Saturday, November 01, 2025
women in black
Two witches (Neti and Jeanine) and two spiders (Pat and your blogger) met to celebrate Halloween last night. We had a lovely paella dinner at Pat's home and we kept talking until very late (to me) and so today I scurry a bit and that's OK. Worth it. And behold, it's now November.

































