They call me: stein, msmas, mush, m.a., mary ann, mary lou, mary om, or just plain mary (and you may too)
Friday, June 30, 2023
lamb, dogs, friends and more
We had a feast at Jen (with two dogs) and Stacie's yesterday for a long lunch in their charming condo two blocks away. Jen and I met on the street while walking and they were gracious enough to include Doug and Barb in their invitation. The top photo is from their back deck where Jen grilled this delicious meal. As I guessed, we all had a lot in common and it was one of those "only in San Francisco" kind of days. Delightful.
Thursday, June 29, 2023
they are official now
Our famous parrots have become the official San Francisco animal. "Wild and free" and sometimes loud and messy. Of course we all loved the book and movie about these colorful creatures who arrived back in the 1980's and somehow managed to proliferate. There are more than 200 parrots in SF now, mostly around Telegraph Hill, the Presidio and Cole Valley. Squawk.
Wednesday, June 28, 2023
the horses idle like old cars
Here and There
The clouds move inlike quiet neighbors.The windwalks down the hill.The cover crophas gotten really talland I love you.And the seas are risingand the meteorsare showering abstractly.And there are too many gunsand I love you.I wish I knew what callsthe Devil from the pits—I have a few theoriesscattered though they arelike wildflowersin the marbleyard.And I have held a mareby her matted maneand clucked my tongueto summon spring.And the azaleasmirror the godlightand the dogwoodsreally do glow in the darklike the meteorsaforementioned.I love youand the horses idlelike old carsin the shaggy field.Everyone is poorbut somehow has horses.I can't explain itbut I wish I couldor how it is a horse isever a breakable thing.
Feature Date
- June 23, 2023
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“Here and There” from Bright Shade: by Chelsea Harlan.
Published by The American Poetry Review October 4th 2022.
Copyright © 2022 by Chelsea Harlan.
Tuesday, June 27, 2023
docu-comedy delights
Jury Duty was such fun ~ don't read anything about it, just watch and enjoy. On Amazon Prime with eight great episodes. Is docu-comedy a word?
Monday, June 26, 2023
Zut!
We celebrated Pamela's belated birthday at Zut in Berkeley yesterday. It was a lovely time filled with lots of chatter and happiness. I drove and was dreading Pride Parade traffic, but everything was smooth and delightful.
Sunday, June 25, 2023
Tender Day
Husbando died five years ago today. That man loved food ~ here he is at Soto Mare in North Beach where Ginger treated us to lunch. He was in bad shape but still happy because we found parking right across the street and the meal was delightful. I have so many glorious memories and I know he would be proud of me for carrying on without him and building my own hermit life with the help of my friends. And my cat. Love remains.
Saturday, June 24, 2023
Fifteen exquisite stories
Margaret Atwood has done it again with Old Babes in the Wood, a collection, a mosaic of wonderful writing. Short stories are very difficult to write, but of course this author can always impress with her wit and wisdom.
Friday, June 23, 2023
sticks, not stones
I'm trying to get used to walking sticks, or trekking poles or mobility aids. They do take the pressure off my bad knees. But they are awkward when stopping for a latte or some shopping so I might invest in ones that fold. Walking remains the BEST exercise for me.
Thursday, June 22, 2023
book club in Marin
We met at the Left Bank in Corte Madera yesterday and it was a fine and sunny day on the patio. Hang the Moon by Jeannette Walls (The Glass Castle) was good fiction based on the life of a woman bootlegger back in the 1920's during prohibition. Ms. Walls is an excellent writer and I really liked this book.
Wednesday, June 21, 2023
well, how about this?
Nine wins in a row. Late inning drama and tons of unexpected fun for Giants' fans. No one expected this team to be so damn good. A scrappy combination of never-say-die new and old players and 2023 is turning into a VERY good baseball year.
Tuesday, June 20, 2023
Juneteenth with sunshine
I'm so pleased that this Holiday is finally catching on and helping to educate all of us regarding race relations and our not so great history here in America. Finally a no-fog day in SF and for the first time in ages I was able to sit on the newly fixed-up back deck and enjoy the sun and the glorious view.
Monday, June 19, 2023
Father's Day in Half Moon Bay
We gathered to celebrate Bill (Mr. Blogmaid) yesterday and what fun to watch our Giants sweep (!) the scum sucking blue Dodgers. Then we did a fun, easy puzzle and walked and ate too much and laughed and talked and yes, blue skies in Pumpkinville. A lovely day indeed. That is niece Jade ~ RR not feeling so hot but we will see her next time for sure.
Sunday, June 18, 2023
Saturday with friends
Afternoon coffee in the Grove with Pat (top photo) and dinner with neighbors Heidi and Rob who live two doors down from me. The middle photo is the view from their back deck, a different perspective than from mine, but do appreciate the fog. Their cat Ozzie was in a fight with a squirrel but he was healing in Heidi's knitting basket. Today we have NO FOG. Happy Father's Day to all.
Saturday, June 17, 2023
this old house looks new
Behold! The painters have finished. They were terrific and I am thrilled with my little home. Yesterday was Hermit Day and mostly I re-invaded my own space and put things back where I think they should go. Annabelle is relieved too and we are both purring here on Mullen Ave.
Friday, June 16, 2023
Vik's Chaat
What a treat to go over to Berkeley yesterday with Doug and Barb. Vik's Chaat is a very large Indian grocery and restaurant on 4th Street ~ reasonable prices and large portions. We sat outside and were able to catch up with our lives as we enjoyed the tandoori, dal, dasa, etc. all with naan and mango lassi. Then a drive around Berkeley with oohs and ahhs.
Thursday, June 15, 2023
wait, is that sunshine?
Yesterday I introduced Terri to Pathetica and we lucked out with the weather. The ocean was at it's best two-tone roiling self and we walked and talked and then had coffee at the Chit Chat. There are still some delightful wildflowers along the walking route and always that much needed ocean air to soothe the lungs.
Wednesday, June 14, 2023
another latte spot
Here is the view from Limoncello on Sutter Street. Red and green Italian flag. A perfect place to read my New Yorker and appreciate San Francisco as I walk the streets and wait for the sun to come out some day soon. Maybe.
Tuesday, June 13, 2023
Somebody, Somewhere
I have been watching the series Somebody, Somewhere on Max. (This is in between the latest legal and political news about tRump.) The two main characters are in the bottom photo, an unlikely friendship, but special. It all takes place in Manhattan, Kansas, where Ginger used to live and where we visited a few times. The little town looks better now than it did back then.
Monday, June 12, 2023
Gary's garden
When Heidi and I were picking up trash yesterday morning a man popped out of his little home and asked if we wanted to see his garden. He was a stranger to us, but excited to show off this gem of a garden and we oohed and ahhhed with enthusiasm. I love this city.
Sunday, June 11, 2023
this old house
The painters are perfectionists. That is the good and bad news. It has been a month of ladders, ropes, noise, dirt, machines, phone calls, may-I-use-the-bathroom? and you all know the drill. The worst is over, meaning the back part of the house with the wood rot and what's-this? Look here, Mary Ann! I think another week. Of course this is costing more than what we originally paid for the house back in the 70's, but that's OK. Necessary. Whoosh.
Saturday, June 10, 2023
knee knonsense
I have to work on these damn knees. Kaiser offers a lot of good advice but I have to get serious about exercising and strengthening the leg muscles and I will. Arthritis. Boring.
Friday, June 09, 2023
Kentucky women
Yesterday I introduced Emma to Jen with 2 dogs and we had a good long walk with Charlie and Birdie all over the neighborhood. Emma is from Louisville and Jen from some place near Paducah. We (they) discussed the following: grits, Cracker Barrel, SF, humidity, trash pick-up, dog personalities, dog behavior, dog poop. Emma flies out this morning, but it was so nice seeing her again.
Thursday, June 08, 2023
I wrote this in 2011 (still true)
HOLD IT UP (a clock)
hold it up
wave it
let it go
let it fly
let it drag
watch it
ignore it
drop it
abuse it
waste it
stomp on it
grab it
smash it
curse it
shake it
tolerate it
turn it
appreciate it
question it
accept it
02/05/11
Wednesday, June 07, 2023
our quiet time
Annabelle and I appreciate our morning hours ~ here she is next to the grandchildren as I work on my computer in front of the fire. We love Wednesdays, always have.
Tuesday, June 06, 2023
Monday, June 05, 2023
and more trash talk
Off to Manny's yesterday morning with Emma and Heidi ~ interesting that we all notice how much cleaner the streets appear to be since Refuse, Refuse began during the pandemic. Then coffee and catch-up just like the good old days.
Sunday, June 04, 2023
Emma is in town!
How wonderful to see our friend again. Emma lives in Portland now and she is here for a few days to go to concerts and see her buddies in SF. She treated Heidi and me to GREAT seats at the Jewel last night and it was a terrific game and the Giants won. Our team looks very good. I like the new rules and behind us there you can see that the palm trees are all dressed up for Pride Month and even more: they were giving away Logan Webb bobbleheads. Hot dogs and garlic fries and baseball and friends. Life is very good.
Saturday, June 03, 2023
The Mission Rock Resort
Pat and Neti and I celebrated blue skies yesterday with lunch on the Bay. The Mission Rock Resort has long been a favorite spot for all of us. Lovely indeed.
Friday, June 02, 2023
chef shop
Bernal Cutlery is not exactly right up my no-cooking alley, but yesterday I accompanied Neighbor Jen there as she was picking up lots of gourmet items and studying the many knives and cook books and this-and-thats. Husbando would have LOVED this store, and I did appreciate the displays and knowledgeable workers and beautiful items and since I know so many people who love to cook, I shall return. Valencia Street, where else?