They call me: stein, msmas, mush, m.a., mary ann, mary lou, mary om, or just plain mary (and you may too)
Tuesday, July 11, 2023
this does not disappoint
The Lincoln Lawyer makes L.A. look so inviting ~ he never seems to have traffic or parking problems. Season 2 is just as engaging and well done as the first go-round. The characters are fun and colorful and I give it a thumbs up. The Flix.
Monday, July 10, 2023
a mixed bag Sunday
Heidi and I picked up trash in the morning with a lot of orange vested citizens. Then Jen with 2 dogs wanted to cook this feast for me ~ herb crusted beef and scalloped potatoes. How could I say no? Delicious. Despite heavy grey weather, this is a very good summer.
Sunday, July 09, 2023
my tribe in the sunshine
Only a few writers gathered at Suzy's in Oakland yesterday and I neglected to take photos except for this one of Fuzzy and Doug with his guitar. Karen H. is here from NYC and that was especially nice because she is a fabulous poet and a good friend. I wrote about my new home improvement project and it was a really lovely day, as per usual. Gratitude. Warmth.
Saturday, July 08, 2023
off to the dump
Bottom photo ~ I actually emptied five pieces of furniture in Bill's office and this was not easy, but necessary. Middle photo ~ everything in Aldo's truck before heading to the dump. Top photo ~ we had saved some sleeping bags and other unused crap for about 40 years in a storage area that you do not want to see. Ever. All this gone today. Great relief. So much more to do, but this is a beginning. Solid, as Emma would say.
Friday, July 07, 2023
now trending...
My friend Terri is a non-cook like me and she swears by her Ninja Air Fryer. Yesterday I saw one at (and by) Costco for $40 so I brought it home and found a snug corner for it in the kitchen. Yes, I am reading the directions and my hope is to become knowledgeable before I actually plug it in. Doug predicts I'll be giving it to them soon ~ how mean is that?
Thursday, July 06, 2023
a little break for Widow Stein
I really wanted some won ton noodle soup yesterday because the clean-up, clean-out has been getting to me. So many memories. Working on music currently. Anyway, Husbando and I used to bring each other this healing soup when one or the other of us had a cold, or worse. I headed for Tam's in Pathetica, but they were closed for vacation so I hit the Hot Pot and settled for chicken chow mien and it was just fine. I like the easy Post Office in Pacifica and the Safeway there is also a nice change from mine. It's the little things that matter currently. Always?
Wednesday, July 05, 2023
tedious tasks and hot dog reward
I spent the 4th on the never-ending job of cleaning out Bill's office. I try not to be emotional because that holds up the process, but so much sentimental crap. Yes, a bit easier than the first time I did this right after he died, but still, he was a bit of a pack rat. I am too, alas, so I need to lean out my office after I finish with his. Sometimes I'm tempted to move something from his office to mine, but I try to head right to the garbage bin first. Dear Heidi brought me a hot dog dinner and please note the beautiful china ~ she has just finished cleaning out her parents' home on the East Coast. There seems to be a theme emerging. Pare down, dear readers.
Tuesday, July 04, 2023
I prefer drone displays
Drones are becoming increasingly popular as fireworks lose popularity. Have a Happy 4th of July, dear readers. Stay safe.
Monday, July 03, 2023
Paganiniana
Another free (with donation jars galore) concert at Herbst Theatre yesterday. This venue is beautiful and located right across the street from City Hall (top photo) and please note the blue skies. Yay! SF Civic Music Association played five Paganini pieces including the famous Rachmaninoff Rhapsody on a Paganini Theme to end this excellent program. I met Amy and Ginger there and we three had a delightful afternoon of music.
Sunday, July 02, 2023
paper thin
What's wrong with this picture? 1) it's warm, I don't need the fireplace 2) the Sunday SF Chronicle is a joke. I can't seem to break the newspaper habit even though it is expensive and just a sliver of what it once was. I do recycle ~ neighbor Heidi gets the Sunday paper and Neti gets all the crossword and sudoku puzzles. And Doonesbury still amuses me, but really everything can be found online. Go figure.
Saturday, July 01, 2023
The Bear = The Best
Oh, oh, oh ~ Season Two. How could The Bear get any better? Well, it has. It's on Hulu and worth the small extra charge. Wonderful Chicago, acting, writing and even though it is listed as a comedy, you might want a box of Kleenex® nearby. Do NOT miss this series, dear readers.
Friday, June 30, 2023
lamb, dogs, friends and more
We had a feast at Jen (with two dogs) and Stacie's yesterday for a long lunch in their charming condo two blocks away. Jen and I met on the street while walking and they were gracious enough to include Doug and Barb in their invitation. The top photo is from their back deck where Jen grilled this delicious meal. As I guessed, we all had a lot in common and it was one of those "only in San Francisco" kind of days. Delightful.
Thursday, June 29, 2023
they are official now
Our famous parrots have become the official San Francisco animal. "Wild and free" and sometimes loud and messy. Of course we all loved the book and movie about these colorful creatures who arrived back in the 1980's and somehow managed to proliferate. There are more than 200 parrots in SF now, mostly around Telegraph Hill, the Presidio and Cole Valley. Squawk.
Wednesday, June 28, 2023
the horses idle like old cars
Here and There
The clouds move inlike quiet neighbors.The windwalks down the hill.The cover crophas gotten really talland I love you.And the seas are risingand the meteorsare showering abstractly.And there are too many gunsand I love you.I wish I knew what callsthe Devil from the pits—I have a few theoriesscattered though they arelike wildflowersin the marbleyard.And I have held a mareby her matted maneand clucked my tongueto summon spring.And the azaleasmirror the godlightand the dogwoodsreally do glow in the darklike the meteorsaforementioned.I love youand the horses idlelike old carsin the shaggy field.Everyone is poorbut somehow has horses.I can't explain itbut I wish I couldor how it is a horse isever a breakable thing.
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“Here and There” from Bright Shade: by Chelsea Harlan.
Published by The American Poetry Review October 4th 2022.
Copyright © 2022 by Chelsea Harlan.
Tuesday, June 27, 2023
docu-comedy delights
Jury Duty was such fun ~ don't read anything about it, just watch and enjoy. On Amazon Prime with eight great episodes. Is docu-comedy a word?
Monday, June 26, 2023
Zut!
We celebrated Pamela's belated birthday at Zut in Berkeley yesterday. It was a lovely time filled with lots of chatter and happiness. I drove and was dreading Pride Parade traffic, but everything was smooth and delightful.
Sunday, June 25, 2023
Tender Day
Husbando died five years ago today. That man loved food ~ here he is at Soto Mare in North Beach where Ginger treated us to lunch. He was in bad shape but still happy because we found parking right across the street and the meal was delightful. I have so many glorious memories and I know he would be proud of me for carrying on without him and building my own hermit life with the help of my friends. And my cat. Love remains.
Saturday, June 24, 2023
Fifteen exquisite stories
Margaret Atwood has done it again with Old Babes in the Wood, a collection, a mosaic of wonderful writing. Short stories are very difficult to write, but of course this author can always impress with her wit and wisdom.
Friday, June 23, 2023
sticks, not stones
I'm trying to get used to walking sticks, or trekking poles or mobility aids. They do take the pressure off my bad knees. But they are awkward when stopping for a latte or some shopping so I might invest in ones that fold. Walking remains the BEST exercise for me.
Thursday, June 22, 2023
book club in Marin
We met at the Left Bank in Corte Madera yesterday and it was a fine and sunny day on the patio. Hang the Moon by Jeannette Walls (The Glass Castle) was good fiction based on the life of a woman bootlegger back in the 1920's during prohibition. Ms. Walls is an excellent writer and I really liked this book.


























