no more commas period
They call me: stein, msmas, mush, m.a., mary ann, mary lou, mary om, or just plain mary (and you may too)
Friday, February 13, 2026
What is BIGFACE?
Yesterday I met Terri for a latte ($9 and delicious!) at Jimmy Butler's pop-up coffee shop at Valencia and 22nd Street. We have no idea why it is called BIGFACE, but it is a fun and friendly place. Jimmy plays for the Warriors and is currently on crutches but fans keep coming in to soak up the atmosphere. The best part for me, of course, was catching up with Terri and I enjoyed my nice long walk in the lovely sunshine.
Thursday, February 12, 2026
happy Heist brunch
What a cheery little restaurant on Post Street! But best of all was catching up with Dancing Jen over my delicious French toast and latte. The rains came down but I made it to Macy's for some smart shopping, a very good Wednesday indeed.
Wednesday, February 11, 2026
Oscar prep
Yesterday I watched The Secret Agent on Prime on Samsung. Today I will do a little research about Brazil in the 1970's. I did like this movie and Wagner Moura is quite wonderful ~ we loved him as Escobar in Narcos, remember? Next up is Hamnet and I will skip F1 and maybe Bugonia? I need to stock up on microwave popcorn as there is rain in the forecast. Rain = movies.
Tuesday, February 10, 2026
today a salute to they/them
Give Us Your Pronouns
They say,
give us
your pronouns.
So proud
of themselves
for asking.
Give us your
pro nouns.
Tell us how
you would like us
to refer to you,
your pronouns
your for nouns
for people
for places
for things
the proper noun
for you is
your pronoun
which you should
give to us. Give
us your
pronouns. Please
help us
refer to you
correctly.
We don’t
want to make
any mistakes
with your pronouns
which are yours
and you have them so
give us your pronouns
give us
this day
our daily
bread
give us time
give us
a bloodhound
with no sense
of smell.
Your pronouns
your canine
lost
in the woods.
~ Stacey Waite
“Give Us Your Pronouns” from A REAL MAN WOULD HAVE A GUN: by Stacey Waite.
Published by University of New Mexico Press on February 18, 2025.
Copyright © 2025 by Stacey Waite.
All rights reserved.
Reproduced by Poetry Daily with permission.
Monday, February 09, 2026
Super Bowl Bunny
Well, Bad Bunny was the highlight yesterday. OK, that and the bratwurst at Heidi and Rob's. We were glad that the Seahawks won and the kicker guy deserves a raise. Ozzie the cat had his back to the tv as I made nonsensical and uneducated comments about "the pocket" and the red zone. Now, let us focus on baseball again, right?
Sunday, February 08, 2026
some great tv
Riot Women is such a glorious and fun (and sad) experience from British Television. I get this on Prime but don't ask me how that works. And yes, there will be a Season Two. Hooray! Check it out...
Saturday, February 07, 2026
home, hearth, cat and memories
It was warm and beautiful in Santa Barbara and Ginger Two took good care of me, as always. So, from the top:
.Lunch at Elwood in Goleta after I deplane
.Orange tree in Ginger's back yard
.Beach walk with Skylar and Ginger
.Gorgeous sunset at the beach
.Lunch at Summerland Beach Cafe
We also had a lovely time with G's friend Betsy and we three actually went clothes shopping (me!) at Natasha's in downtown Santa Barbara.
And a special thanks to Mr. and Ms. Blogmaid for picking me up at SFO yesterday. No easy task.
















