Friday, May 15, 2026

Matisse at SF Moma



 Thanks to Terri for scoring Opening Day tickets to the Matisse exhibit yesterday. She took the bottom photo of me taking photos of people taking pictures. First we had lunch at Cafe Jane next door and then we enjoyed wandering all over the 4th Floor. The curators did a fabulous job and I especially loved the recreation of Gertrude Stein's apartment in Paris. Well done, Moma!

Thursday, May 14, 2026

tradwives in America


 Yay, a new novel and this one knocked The Correspondent off the #1 NYTimes best seller list. Already a page turner, I started Yesteryear yesterday. I can only say that once. Drat. Our heroine is an Instagram influencer with a bunch of kids and a very funny inner life and yes, I like it. A lot.

Wednesday, May 13, 2026

new in the nabe



 Yay! A new, big and colorful mural up on Bryant and 24th, the heart of the Latino district. I couldn't get it in one shot, as you can see. I believe that's a coyote along with birds and a car and flowers galore. 

Tuesday, May 12, 2026

and MORE dumplings


 Granddaughter Samantha and I had a lovely late lunch yesterday back at Dumpling Story on Valencia Street. She is full of plans which include (alas) a move to Florida and yes, we will miss her and Luke and the big old doodle Harlow so much. And they will miss the Bay Area, that much I know for sure.

Monday, May 11, 2026

a poem to start the week


 

Tablecloth
My mother made a tablecloth
She crocheted
At the time I didn't know anything
She took it everywhere
I wondered at how she crocheted in the darkness of a theatre
But she did
And the next day there wasn't a single stitch added or dropped
That was my mother in those days
A strange woman
She worked during the day and on the weekends stitched
She took me to the theatre
I didn't understand her then
My friends' mothers stayed home
They cooked   They picked them up from school   They packed lunch boxes
When the tablecloth was finished
She put it on the table
It was magnificent
But back then I didn't understand
It was complicated
I was tangled in her delicate web
I saw my mother through that pane of thread
She kept being different from the others:
She worked during the day
Embroidered on the weekends
And couldn't really stand being at home
I never understood her

Maybe I didn't know enough
She also never taught me
Thought it was too much for me—or too little
Now my mother says she can't do anything with her hands
The tablecloth stays tucked away in the kitchen cabinet
I got myself knee-deep in diplomas
And I don't know how to embroider  

Sunday, May 10, 2026

a remarkably good movie


 Thanks to the Blogmaid for recommending Remarkably Bright Creatures featuring Sally Field, Lewis Pullman and a chatty octopus who is filled with all sorts of wisdom. On the Flix®.

Saturday, May 09, 2026

let's call them step flowers


 Nancy, my almost perfect step daughter, sent this glorious bouquet and my house smells lovely as a result. I was not a great step mother, but I lucked out and am grateful to have experienced the growth and development of Bill's four children. And of course the six grands are a delight. Happy Mother's Day to the REAL mamas out there. Good job!