Monday, May 11, 2026

a poem to start the week


 

Tablecloth
My mother made a tablecloth
She crocheted
At the time I didn't know anything
She took it everywhere
I wondered at how she crocheted in the darkness of a theatre
But she did
And the next day there wasn't a single stitch added or dropped
That was my mother in those days
A strange woman
She worked during the day and on the weekends stitched
She took me to the theatre
I didn't understand her then
My friends' mothers stayed home
They cooked   They picked them up from school   They packed lunch boxes
When the tablecloth was finished
She put it on the table
It was magnificent
But back then I didn't understand
It was complicated
I was tangled in her delicate web
I saw my mother through that pane of thread
She kept being different from the others:
She worked during the day
Embroidered on the weekends
And couldn't really stand being at home
I never understood her

Maybe I didn't know enough
She also never taught me
Thought it was too much for me—or too little
Now my mother says she can't do anything with her hands
The tablecloth stays tucked away in the kitchen cabinet
I got myself knee-deep in diplomas
And I don't know how to embroider  

Sunday, May 10, 2026

a remarkably good movie


 Thanks to the Blogmaid for recommending Remarkably Bright Creatures featuring Sally Field, Lewis Pullman and a chatty octopus who is filled with all sorts of wisdom. On the Flix®.

Saturday, May 09, 2026

let's call them step flowers


 Nancy, my almost perfect step daughter, sent this glorious bouquet and my house smells lovely as a result. I was not a great step mother, but I lucked out and am grateful to have experienced the growth and development of Bill's four children. And of course the six grands are a delight. Happy Mother's Day to the REAL mamas out there. Good job!

Friday, May 08, 2026

ah, those Brits...


 A select team of undercover Customs investigators infiltrate the drug world back in the 1990's. This is based on a true story and these civil servants risk their lives to stop the flow of heroin into the UK. Starring Steve Coogan, Tom Burke and Ami Ameen. Six episodes on the Flix®.

Thursday, May 07, 2026

a little Monet, please



 Yesterday Chef Sarah and I went to the deYoung to see Monet and Venice, a sweet little exhibit that brought back lots of memories of my trip to Venice. I recommend this and it wasn't too crazy/busy so we could really enjoy the paintings. The Red House (bottom photo) might be my favorite. Good early lunch in the cafe along with easy parking made this a lovely, special day. Thank you, Sarah Ann.

Wednesday, May 06, 2026

the kitten update


 All seven are flourishing and will be going to their forever homes soon. I admire Cristina and Deanie so much for taking on this chore. The mother was never found in the field so these kittens have been bottle fed and cleaned are as healthy as can be. Annabelle does NOT want a little sister or brother, so there.

Tuesday, May 05, 2026

inside the web of red yarn



 Chiharu Shiota's work at the Asian Art Museum is spectacular, especially Diary in the top photo.  My friend Ken works at the Asian and I benefitted with a good visit and excellent lunch in the cafe there yesterday. And I love the gift store. All in all, a delightful Monday for your blogger.