They call me: stein, msmas, mush, m.a., mary ann, mary lou, mary om, or just plain mary (and you may too)
Tuesday, June 25, 2024
Tender Day
Well, these six years flew by. I think Husbando would be proud of all that I've accomplished since he died and forgiving of all the mistakes I've made. He certainly was while he was alive. We will be forever grateful to Ginger and the Blogmaid for seeing us through that awful night.
Monday, June 24, 2024
best vacuums ever
Thanks to the Blogmaid for these great goat photos of the yearly clean-up down in Half Moon Bay. What amazing animals with outstanding digestive systems and their intriguing eyes.
Sunday, June 23, 2024
a big ol' slice of heaven
As promised... I've heard about Scrap for years and somehow never got here on my own. But thanks to Terri on Friday, this delightful re-use "store" will be my new go-to place for whatever I might be looking for, especially paper products. I also know where to donate such things as brand new calendars, note cards, ribbons, etc. Here from the Scrap official website:
SCRAP is a 501(c)(3) Arts education nonprofit and a creative Reuse center founded in 1976 in San Francisco. Our mission is to put the materials and methods of art-making in reach for everyone, helping people turn everyday objects into creative projects that fuel the human spirit, support community vibrancy and reinforce environmental awareness. And we divert over 200 tons of materials heading from landfill each year!
Saturday, June 22, 2024
in search of Todd Hido
What a nice day I had with Terri yesterday. She drove (thank you!) to the Minnesota Street Project where we discovered the top two pieces, then we walked over to Casemore Gallery to soak in the Todd Hido (a local photographer who studied with Larry Sultan). His House Hunting exhibit is well worth seeing and I'm glad he included the cat. Yummy lunch at the Hard Knox and then I finally got to Scrap...I will cover that tomorrow and you will love it too. Promise.
Friday, June 21, 2024
a genius comic
Gene Wilder's life was good to escape to on Netflix for me. He had way more fun than most actors and of course some tragedy along the way too. Who can ever forget him in Blazing Saddles or The Producers? And he was responsible for Young Frankenstein. Thumbs up!
Thursday, June 20, 2024
phase two begins (oh boy)
Somehow I have managed to clean out my little over stuffed office and it will become Emma's Bathroom sometime this year. To my happy surprise work started yesterday and Handy Jan's partner, Mike, is doing all the plumbing and he works quickly. Annabelle and I are a tad nervous with the noise but we know that it is all for a good cause and yes, we can do this thing.
Wednesday, June 19, 2024
he was the GOAT
RIP to the Say Hey Kid who died yesterday at the age of 93. The baseball world and our city mourns and within minutes fans were bringing flowers to his statue at the Jewel. I soaked up all the tributes on TV last night ~ Willie Mays, what a superb human being. One of his sayings:
PRACTICE LIKE A PRO
PLAY LIKE A KID
Tuesday, June 18, 2024
we love SF
Top: sunset from my back window.
Middle: view from Sunday picnic at the park behind the Randall Museum in Twin Peaks.
Bottom: glorious painted side wall from walk on Folsom Street yesterday.
Monday, June 17, 2024
we love Awards!
So satisfying. I hosted an easy little pizza party last night for friends who don't have TVs (now what?) and it made me want to go to NYC and see a few great plays that will arrive here in maybe two years, if we are lucky. We liked how much cross-over there was with the movies this year at the Tonys. And yay, Hillary Clinton looking fabulous.
Sunday, June 16, 2024
vote for Mayor Breed
Maybe it was the sunshine yesterday? Jack and I received a few more thumbs up and positive comments than we did the previous Saturday when we worked outside of the Noe Valley Farmers' Market. One complaint from a jerk who didn't like that London shut down the city so quickly for Covid and we all had to wear masks (horror) and I replied that she saved my life. Not an easy decision to close a city, but it worked.
Saturday, June 15, 2024
it takes a village
Yesterday I joined this group of seniors ~ part of a network of 300 Villages across the USA. It began here in the city in 2009 and now they have 650 members. I loved reading this: WE ARE INDEPENDENT AND INTERDEPENDENT. People helping people through volunteer work and lots of activities such as walking groups, virtual tours, etc. More about this as I become involved ~ next meeting on Tuesday "Making the Most of Your Membership". Oh, the cost? $10 a month.
Friday, June 14, 2024
it must be Summer
I was forced to endure a couple of days without my trusty fireplace. No wonder Annabelle had tummy issues. Thankfully PG&E arrived yesterday afternoon to give me a couple of hints and to make sure there were no leaks, etc. Some sort of problem with the little starter switch so I will be very gentle with this in the future. The mornings are foggy now and some days the sun appears, or not. I've grown to appreciate the fog, our natural air conditioning. Beats horrible heat, right?
Thursday, June 13, 2024
a rough two days
Annabelle and I rescued each other almost six years ago. She is a healthy, feisty girl, but for the past two days she has been vomiting (barely making it to the best carpet) and I believe it was probably hairball related, even though I brush her. I'm not sure, but I think she is about 8 years old now and so I bought this treat for her and I think it helped. Today she seems to have recovered and she is, as usual, famished. Thanks to the Blogmaid for helping me through this "crisis".
Wednesday, June 12, 2024
a gift for Emma's Room
Amy presented me with a cool black coat rack from Amazon. Every guest will need some place to hang stuff, as we all know. She even put it together for me yesterday as we discussed everything under the sun over tea. The new bathroom next door is still under discussion...
Tuesday, June 11, 2024
pink triangle time
In the middle photo we can see the triangle (barely) from my back window. There were 600 or so volunteers who installed this Pride symbol under Sutro Tower over the weekend. This is just so impressive and meaningful and, of course, another reason why I love SF so much.
Monday, June 10, 2024
so proud of our Pride Family
Yesterday was the annual Pride Day in Half Moon Bay and here we see and applaud the Blogmaid Family in all their colorful attire. It was a quieter day here in the City for Annabelle and myself, but we loved all the news and photos from Pumpkinville.
Sunday, June 09, 2024
so I googled Sawfish
Always a Mercy
Tomorrow always packs a fresh challenge in her pocketbookand prayer is rarely answered by the party you are callingListen to someone who has been around awhileafter all, it takes a hundred-year droughtto expose the remains of a shipwreckSomething else I want you to know—sawfish have lips as luscious as a mangoand it's almost always a mercy to bedenied the things you want mostI remember after the warwomen drew lines down the backsof their legs, then went into the streetand kissed perfect strangersGod I hope that doesn't happen againNo shoes on the couch. Peels in the trash
~ Maria Dylan Himmelmanfrom SUNDRY ABDUCTIONS
Saturday, June 08, 2024
a dark Irish comedy
There are only 7 episodes of Bodkin and I am trying not to binge so I can make this show last. Three journalists/podcasters go to this small Irish seaside town and unearth some past tragedies and cause a lot of problems. These three are wonderfully different characters and I love how they argue and bicker and interact. The Flix® does it again...
Friday, June 07, 2024
The Art of Noise
I didn't really expect much yesterday at this exhibit at SF Moma, mostly I just wanted to meet with Suzy for lunch outside on the 5th Floor. And that was lovely, but this was a terrific example of the superb graphic design history of San Francisco with the glorious album covers and posters from the past. A ton of young people wearing stunning fashion choices were enjoying this almost too colorful exhibition of more than 800 pieces. This amazing collection is available through August 18, and I encourage you to go. Begin on the 7th floor this trip, OK?
Thursday, June 06, 2024
Three Babes
Jen-with-two-dogs takes pie baking classes here. (I am not tempted) But I did finally get to Three Babes for a key lime pie yesterday. Yum. This was my contribution to Nicole's Wednesday night gathering and the Babes did not disappoint. I do like to support local business, especially women-owned. A fine experience and I will return. Perhaps a cherry pie next time?
Wednesday, June 05, 2024
Cass and Atlas
The youngest Blogmaid, Cass, is back from SCAD in Savannah for a nice long summer with her parents. Cass (formerly known as RR) loves her horse, Atlas, as you can see. What a joy it has been to watch Cass grow up ~ I have been so fortunate.
Tuesday, June 04, 2024
new mural celebrates the nabe
Bernal Dream is the name of this 40 ft. mural in my Precita Park Cafe where I often stop for lunch or a latte. It opened in 2011 and brought this community together in a way we never imagined at the time. Kids, dogs, big families and happy singles always find a smile and a table inside our out, depending on the weather. One of my very favorite local artists, Paul Madonna, was commissioned for this outstanding mural and I am so impressed.
Monday, June 03, 2024
we keep on walking
Sure, the arthritis kicks in but I use a walking stick now for the hills and bad sidewalks. There is always something new to see like these sturdy purple flowers on Precita Avenue and the new mural on Florida Street. And often a latte reward along the way. Life is good.
Sunday, June 02, 2024
Poder Latinx
A huge party of (mostly) old lefties yesterday and we all decided that 34 is our new favorite number. The featured speaker and the hostess (bottom photo) were fund raising for Poder Latinx to help immigrants in the Central Valley of California. Poder = Power, but you probably already guessed that. Great food, sunshine and lots of talk about that Felon who used to believe in Law and Order. Successful party on many levels.
Saturday, June 01, 2024
Tom, Jeff, Diane and more
The critics aren't loving A Man in Full on Netflix, but it is a great escape for me. This is from a Tom Wolfe novel and stars Jeff Daniels and Diane Lane, two of my favorites. The setting is Atlanta, Georgia and the characters are certainly interesting.
Friday, May 31, 2024
a jury of his peers
The fact that this psycho was convicted of all 34 felonies does not mean that he won't be our next president. But still, what if these 12 good people had found him innocent? Even worse.

















































