the sun's out and so were we

Ginger was intrigued by this house on Sloat Blvd. Not just the color, the mouse too.

Many of the penguins were inside their condos, watching TV and sitting on eggs. The zoo keepers had to hand feed them. Spoiled.

This is the baby giraffe ~ born in January. Sweet.

Here is a teenager, enjoying the sun.

Fun day yesterday with our friend Ginger. First coffee and errands on
24th Street, then a visit to the Community Thrift Store on Valencia and
some BBQ'd hot dogs and lunch outside on our back deck. The two
women spent the afternoon at the zoo, talking and getting lost and
saying "oh, look!" every other minute. Usually it's cold and windy
there, but the people and animals were all loving the sunshine and
very gentle ocean breezes. And more sunshine today ~ hooray, even
if I have to work I can go outside for my lunch.

taking a moment to smell...

the roses

I purposefully went to work early yesterday morning so I could sit in
the sun at the Rose Garden in Golden Gate Park. I poured coffee from
my Thermos® and watched the gardeners snip and prune. A woman
runner stopped to sniff and a man sat on another bench and took off
his shoes to bask in the glorious sunshine. I had my book with me,
but I was really there for the roses, and they for me.

is this the reason?

By now you know that I am a sun worshiper and I think maybe it's
because of my youth spent on the SoCal beaches every summer. This
is not my photo, but it makes me happy. We have sunshine this
morning here in SF, it has been approximately 10 long grey days
since that occurred. Yeah, sunshine, stay awhile!

My yesterday off was spent at yoga, lunch with my friend Gini and
I watched Frost/Nixon from start to finish. One great movie. I work
today and am off tomorrow again and life is good. Very good, in fact.

back to my book shelf

I used the handy "reserve for me" feature of the SF Public Library
and The Piano Teacher arrived for pick-up after about a 6 week wait.
This story takes place in Hong Kong in the 40's and 50's. I love
learning history through fiction and had no idea that the Japanese
swarmed into Hong Kong towards the end of WW II. And yes, I
was a history major. There are two intriguing plots intertwined
and I highly recommend this novel by Janice Y. K. Lee.

As an aside, I'm starting to use the Facebook WeRead feature,
listing many of the books I've read and enjoyed. Thankfully I
started jotting the titles and authors down back in '04 and wish
I had done that a long time ago.

friends, poetry and san francisco

Karen Hildebrand reads her exquisite poetry at the Gallery Cafe.

A small slice of the intense Tiapos audience.

Last night was one of those evenings that I thought would happen
twice a week or so, when I first moved to SF when I was in my twenties.
That didn't occur, making last night even more special. The fog and
mist, cable cars clanging up at Mason and Washington, strong coffee
and freshly baked cookies. Karen, here for a week from NYC, is a
fabulous poet, working hard on her writing and making a dramatic
impact in poetic circles on the East Coast. Her delivery was perfect
and her poems aim for the heart. I especially enjoyed "Women Like
Us" and the final one she read about the dining room table. Wowza.
Come back, Karen, we miss you.

rebirth at age 60

We both thoroughly enjoyed American Hwangap at the Magic Theatre
last night. It's the story of a father who left home for 15 years and
returns to his wife and 3 bitter and confused children. Hwangap, is the
60th b. day celebration in Korean, but this is a universal family story,
aren't they all? (The father, above, was the Pig Farmer in Deadwood,
one of our favorite characters in that fine HBO series.) This is a comedy,
by the way, but you might want to drop a Kleenex® in your purse and/or pocket.

nixon making nice

I was exhausted and fell asleep during this Frost/Nixon movie
last night, but what I saw was terrific, and I will watch it when
I'm not so tired. It was a really busy day at da deYoung, plus
a touch of insomnia the night before ~ not a great combo for me.

The joke of yesterday is because there is ALWAYS a gift shoppe
after every museum exhibit, or at least that's my experience.
Today I'm out at the Legion, always a pleasure and I am not
being sarcastic.

onward, ever onward

So much for the photos, you'll have to check The Great Plotnik's
great blog for those from our fabulous Tiapos gathering.

I worked a full shift at da deYoung yesterday and we were busy!
It's a special 20% off sale for museum members and people are
still spending, I'm happy to say. The Warhol exhibit closes on
May 17th, so hurry in if you haven't seen it yet. Plus a lot of
the Warhol merchandise is on sale in the little gift shoppe at
the end of the exhibit. You can't miss it (joke).

The rains are here, sometimes heavy. Our garden is happy and
so, I presume, are the forests all over Northern California. And
I too am in a good mood ~ hooray.

and there I sat with my chili & baklava

I forgot my camera last night, so I'll poach a few from some
others and post them tomorrow, or the next day. We had a
glorious Tiapos (This Is A Piece Of Shit) writing group, dinner
and reunion last night over at The Great Plotnik's. He and
Ms. Plottie provided scrumptious chili, cornbread and
beverages and we writers brought the accouterments. When
I dragged in from work Husbando had made the salad dressing
and set up all the ingredients so I could make MY salad. He
is a find indeed. As a reward TGP sent me home with some
yummy chili for him.

The reason for the reunion is the return of Karen H. from NYC.
She is a magazine editor and in the past 6 years has become a
professional poet. Such talent. And Martha joined us, she lives
in Danville and that is indeed a drive. Rachel was there too.
In fact we were almost complete except for Eric and Chef P.,
neither of whom have the swine flu, to our knowledge. Oh, and
Suzie Parker is out of town, alas.

These gatherings are too wonderful to describe, but there is
so much laughter that none dare wear mascara or sit down
without a Kleenex® to dab the eyes. I figure that all viruses
will leave the system when uncontrollable laughing enters.
This is a medical fact. Oh, what a night...

the Academy of Sciences, up close

Up on the roof, one of the 7 hills of San Francisco.

Lots of growth up here ~ some look like weeds.

Is Claude, the albino alligator, stuffed? He never moves.

Detail from the old Steinhart aquarium.

I like how they did the donor wall ~ our names are missing, however.

I think the miles and miles of fish and sea things are the best part of
the Academy, although we were able to be nose-to-nose with the
penguins because we hit the Academy at 8:30am on Tuesday. I gave
Husbando a membership for xmas and he often goes without me
because I usually work Tuesdays, but it was fun to have the time to
poke around. We finally enjoyed the Morrison Planetarium show, even
though I tend to get motion sickness when they fly through space.

The Academy is a huge success and because da deYoung is right across
the way, I hear lots of complaints about the crowds and lines, etc.
I bet in a year it will settle down and maybe they will limit the number
of school groups. I did, however, just read that they are having new
free days for San Francisco citizens based now on zip codes. Maybe that will help.

special wednesday add on!

RR loves her new Giants dress and wore it to pre-school today.
We had LOTS of time to shop because the person who carried
the tickets was just a few minutes late. But we forgive and forget
quickly and easily, years of marriage will do that to you.

giants playing poorly

It was indeed a gloriously clear night at The Jewel.

Here is "the baseball group" sans Sally, who for reasons only she knows,
decided to watch the game on her mammoth TV. At least she could
turn it off early. Above we have notthat, The Great Plotnik and our
blogmaid. Note the woman in the pink cap next to the icky Dodger
blue guy. She did her homework during the entire game. We all
loved that. It was cold, the person who had the tickets was late and
the Giants lost ~ now you tell me why we still had a great time. Maybe
it was the jerk behind us (there is always one, or more) who yelled
"Cheeseburger" when the icky Dodgers were in the field. Did he
mean Chad Billingsley, the pitcher, or was he simply hungry?

There were several more strange details to record here. Lots and lots
of empty seats. Peculiar, no? As it grew colder, about 100 seagulls flew
above us, eerie under the white lights because they became ethereal
and almost transparent. No one could photograph them properly, but
that was more fun than watching the Giants drop fly balls and forget
how to steal bases. Oh, and we declined a cup of coffee because it
cost $5...plain old black coffee. Sheeeeeeesh. Parking cost $30, but
we are hiding that fact from Husbando forever.

Tomorrow I'll post about our trip to the Academy of Sciences in GGP.
We were there yesterday at 8:30am and finally "did" the Morrison
Planetarium Redux. Very cool.

barcelona on the 32" screen

Yesterday was a bit blustery, but I got in a good nabe walk and
then watched this fun movie as a reward. Vicky Cristina Barcelona
features the architect Gaudi, the dreamy Javier Bardem, Scarlett
Johansson, Rebecca Hall and Penelope Cruz who is sensational
in this Woody Allen comedy. Patricia Clarkson too, she is getting
a lot of work lately and that's a very good thing. (We spent a week
in Barcelona once and it is such a beautiful and interesting city.)

Baseball on TV last night (we won) and in person tonight. I'll
report on that tomorrow. Gloves, scarf, heavy Giants' jacket
and some ugly hat too ~ all in orange and black, of course.

entering a time warp

Nothing seems to change in Bolinas.

Lots of grey haired hippies, but they didn't seem to be in the mood for me to take their photos.

Beautiful sunshine and flowers ~ an easy drive, too.

Our friend Vera's potluck lunch for 13 was a huge success. Her husband, Curt, died last year and I admire her for pulling together a gala Sunday event. The food was all good and that kind of sunshine-with-slight-wind weather made everyone extra hungry. The drive both ways was beautiful, even when I had the CHP guy on my tail for what seemed like a really long time, before I could pull over and let him pass. And not one sign that indicated where Bolinas is, but we had a detailed map from Curt the artist, another gift he gave us all.

where hippies still rule

Imagine, my second Sunday off in a row! We are heading to Bolinas
for a party and I will return with real photos. This one I snagged from
the internet, the oft-photographed Peace Farm in Bolinas. We all
remember that this little town hates visitors and especially the ones
with any sort of discretionary income. I hope we arrive early and can
poke around the downtown and maybe find some decent coffee. I
just read that the maximum time a Bolinas highway sign was left up
was 36 hours, or maybe 36 minutes? In any event, we have a map
and lots of time to say, "oooops, turn around", and like that. And how
did we EVER travel without cell phones?

who would have thought?

The blogmaid shamed, cajoled and dragged me into joining Facebook®
and now I am here to say thanks and I will quickly list what the
benefits have been for me:
1) finding old friends and acquaintances
2) keeping up (or not) with peoples' lives
3) information ~ yesterday I asked for book suggestions and I received
enough to keep me reading for several months
4) communication ~ on Wednesday one of our museum co-workers
was in a car accident and by nightfall we all knew she was OK,
via Facebook
5) photos and more photos

There is an alumni group for all of the folks who used to work at
the big box and of course it is HUGE and varied. What a pleasure.

friday night in the park

I'm working the closing shift at the de Young tonight. Here is a
photo I borrowed from the museum website to show the big table
and kids doing art projects. (If it were from my camera I would
straighten it.) There will be music (loud) and many guests including
my friend Ken, who will visit and take in the Warhol. I don't "do"
the exhibits the way I thought I would and plan to rectify that soon.
Originally I thought I'd go and gaze at the treasures everyday ~ I don't, alas.

back to normal weather here

Seems like folks either love or hate that hot weather, but in any
case it never lasts for more than 3 or 4 days, so we move on to
other subjects now. Here we have RR enjoying some beach time
before the fog rolled back in yesterday.

I'm off today ~ a little yoga this morning to add a bit more serenity
to my life. Getting ready for a Giants game next Tuesday night,
how fun will that be? The blogmaid suggested that we avoid sitting
near any blue scumsucking Dodger fans and as usual, she's spot on.

whose blog is this?

An unassuming planter in a Bernal Heights backyard...

Last year The Great Plotnik gave us some bulbs. I plunked them into
a container and promptly forgot to water them because we had the
ladder infestation for months and months on end. Well, look what
popped out yesterday ~ the famous blue iris. TGP blogged about theirs
yesterday, and I will do the same today. Glorious, thanks DD!

the song of samsung

We spent a lot of yesterday putting our new 32" TV together. Over the
years we have learned that these projects can add a certain strain to
an otherwise perfect marriage, so there were many breaks and "I'll
go water the garden and scream silently at you again", kind of moments.
But we did it and no blood was shed. The picture is fabulous and so
large in our tiny back room that it is almost scary, but not quite.
Melissa Leo has been one of our favorite actors since back in the
days of Homicide on TV. Of course she is fabulous here in Frozen
River which takes place on the Canadian border and I do give it
many stars and a few Kleenex®, but in a good way. It's the story
of smuggling and poverty, but really, in the end the movie is all
about women's friendship. We can't go wrong with that theme.

sunshine and parties

Yesterday was glorious ~ Crissy Field looked like the SoCal beaches of
my youth with kids, blankets, umbrellas, dogs, picnic baskets and a
ton of walkers, runners and bicyclers. Perfect.

Then last night an engagement party for Lucy (above), a co-worker at
MY museum. Fun, such nice people. Interesting to note that everyone
dressed for this occasion ~ no flip flops, torn jeans nor shorts.
And because of this extreme summer weather everyone could sit
outside the Metropol down on Sutter and enjoy drinks and (alas)
cigarettes. More hot weather today, imagine.

a rare Sunday off

For the past 20 years (or so) I've worked on Sundays and that's
OK with me, it's usually a mellow day. As a result, when I do have
a Sunday off, it seems like an exquisite treat. The streets are so
quiet and there really is a sort a reverential (right word?) hush
all over the world.

I'll be walking down at Ocean Beach with Ginger who is BARTing
over from Pleasanton. Then we will have lunch somewhere with
Husbando and tonight is a party for the museum staff. My first.

Falling was written by the woman of Cazalet Chronicle fame,
Elizabeth Jane Howard. It's about an older man and woman (in
their eeeeeeek sixties) who fall in love. I almost put it down
because the man has many slimeball features, but the blogmaid
pushed me into going back and I'm glad I did. Of course it is
based on Ms. Howard's life, she was married to Kingsley Amis
and then she met this strange man whom she calls Henry. It
is a fine novel and I recommend it to my women friends.

not bad at all

Here is the "after" photo. It took me one double espresso and most of
the afternoon yesterday, but my office now welcomes me. It helped to
listen to Leonard Cohen and also to pretty much know that slipping
papers into a file folder isn't nearly as rewarding as putting them into
the blue recycle-only garbage can. I do love clean flat surfaces.

The rest of the day sped by. Downtown for new glasses (Cobra) and
reading Falling which I will review tomorrow, as I should have finished
it by then. Work today, back on the #33 for some more writerly fodder.

do I really need this 1982 letter?

I was appalled and delighted to see so many examples when I Googled
"messy office" this morning. Today will be my yearly (?) clean-up, and
although my little basement space isn't this bad, it still begs for some
filing, tossing and attention. Because of my writing, I not only keep
my work, but all the lovely and helpful remarks from my Tiapos friends.
And then I have had a few careers and I do keep files filled with non-
sense from those varied and not always 100% successful endeavors.
Recently I updated my résumé (!) and I actually delved back into the
dim/distant pass and was glad I kept some (not all) of that information.

i am a dolt

Last night we watched Rachel Maddow and Keith Olbermann as they
discussed the tax protesters ~ they had their adorable left wing smirks
on every time the term "tea bagging" was used. Before I went to bed
I checked the Urban Dictionary and now I understand why these
patriots were so upset and of course I'm greatly amused. But because
this blog has thousands of readers under 18, I will let you look this
up for yourself. Or maybe Husbando and I are the only ones who didn't
GET the joke, although looking at the protesters on TV, I betcha they
were just as clueless as we were.

and now for a professional review...

Article:Music review: Leonard Cohen's graceful gift:/c/a/2009/04/14/DDNC17271R.DTL

Article:Music review: Leonard Cohen's graceful gift:/c/a/2009/04/14/DDNC17271R.DTL

Leonard Cohen's graceful gift

Joel Selvin, Chronicle Senior Pop Music Correspondent

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Leonard Cohen dashed onto the stage, a gray-haired old man in a dark suit, tie and fedora. He spent the next hour immersed in music before he spoke a word to the capacity crowd Monday at Oakland's Paramount Theatre.

He noted that it had been 14 or 15 years since he had last performed. "I was maybe 60 years old," he said. "Just a crazy kid with a dream."

In the 16 years since Leonard Cohen, 74, last appeared in the Bay Area at the medium-size Warfield theater, he has become widely recognized as one of the great songwriters of his generation, and he was greeted by the adoring crowd at the Paramount like the literary lion and musical giant he has always been. People were wiping tears of joy from their eyes at the warm, profound beauty of his songs.

Tickets to the first two concerts sold out almost immediately. A third show has been added for Wednesday, and tickets to the sold-out shows were fetching big bucks on the Internet. Leonard Cohen was not always such a big deal.

His own recordings usually attracted a modest cult following, but since the 1994 recording of Cohen's "Hallelujah" by the late Jeff Buckley, he seems to have achieved an elevated status - subject of tribute albums, documentary movies, "American Idol" covers and the sort of lavish encomiums and accolades usually reserved for the dead or dying.

At the Paramount, he looked to be in excellent health. Cohen was a humble, generous host whose bass voice glowed with golden tones when he dropped into his bottom register, whose best songs were as good as songs get, whose wit was exceeded only by his grace and dignity. He laces wry ripostes and puntastic wordplay into lyrics cut like jewelry, all delivered with laconic ease and mulish sure-footedness.

Cohen is not an entertainer. He wouldn't be returning to the stage at this point in his life if his ex-manager hadn't stolen his life savings. He is a Buddhist monk who sings and likes to stitch little gags into his songs. The crowd waited expectantly for key lines - for instance, "We are ugly but we have the music" from "Chelsea Hotel," the song he wrote about his one-night stand with Janis Joplin, a story now part of his legend, common knowledge to the audience - and they exploded with knowing cheers. Cohen, who was once a somewhat esoteric figure on the music scene's peripheries, has ascended into the pop pantheon.

He treated the audience to a luxurious two-hour tour through some of the many high points of his career - from ample selections from his 1988 masterpiece album, "I'm Your Man," to "Suzanne" and "So Long Marianne" from his earliest albums. He dusted off the little-noted "The Gypsy's Wife" and "Who by Fire." The now even more chilling "The Future" has never sounded the same since 9/11. He let the supple, elegant musicianship of his band wash over his songs. Cohen sang quietly, gently, deeply, and he made every word count.

Javier Mas of Barcelona added Mediterranean flavor on bandurria and other exotic stringed instruments. Bassist Roscoe Beck and guitarist Bob Metzger are veteran Cohen accompanists. His sometime songwriting collaborator, Sharon Robinson, was magnificent on her own "Boogie Street" - Cohen watching intently, hat in hand - and she was more than capably flanked in the female background choir by vocalists Hattie and Charley Webb, two charming young British ladies who count gymnastics among their performing skills.

At the heart of all this wonderful music is Cohen's unflappable humanity. The dark humor and irony are layered over a basically reassuring view of life and humankind. Everything's cracked, Cohen tells us; that's how the light gets in.

He may not have wanted to do this in the first place, but he is game and great, and these Leonard Cohen performances - this well-deserved victory lap by this world-champion words and music man - are a precious gift to all who see them.

(back to me, on a personal note ~ I've been playing my "Essential
Leonard Cohen" whenever possible and the words mean even
more to me now. What a performance, what a night. Thanks, Jen!)

like a bird on a wire

I don't go to many musical events, but even if I did, I would have to
say that the Leonard Cohen concert last night at the Paramount
Theatre in Oakland was the best of the best. No opening group, it
started promptly at 8pm and lasted until after 11. He was on stage
the entire time with a group of 3 women and 6 back-up musicians.
I thought the lighting was spectacular and the audience well-behaved
and so, so appreciative.

My love of Leonard is mostly because he is such a poet and an
interesting and still sexy man. His voice was strong, deep and
gravelly, as you know. Here were some of my all-time favorites:

• Waiting for the Miracle
• Hallelujah
• I'm Your Man
• Tower of Song
• Take this Waltz
• Democracy
• So Long Marianne
• Famous Blue Raincoat
• Chelsea Hotel
• If it be Your Will
• Bird on a Wire
• In My Secret Life
• A Thousand Kisses Deep
• Closing Time

Indeed I missed a few there. Our seats were terrific.
Beforehand, Dancing Jen and I had fried chicken sandwiches
in Oakland and got caught up on each others' lives. It was a
very, very special evening and I so want to thank Jen for
getting the tickets. It was a night to remember, I'm glowing
even with a certain lack of sleep.

Oh, and the BART business worked out just fine. Perfect.

not your typical Easter movie

One of the great benefits for me of working in both bookstores and
now the museum, is that I am surrounded by knowledgeable film
buffs who recommend movies that I would never ever hear about
otherwise. When I started at the deYoung back in December, Travis
and I trained together and what is that expression? Kittens in the
same litter box? Well, whatever, Travis told me about this film.

Mishima: A Life in Four Chapters tells the true story of the life
of Yukio Mishima, a famous Japanese writer and military guy
who killed himself in a dramatic manner in 1970. I can't pretend
to understand or see what "real" film critics do, but both Husbando
and I felt that we learned a lot about someone we had never really
known about before. Directed by Paul Schrader.

here's to Easter...

Egg wreath in Pumpkinville

RR concentrates on winning the egg race

Chance, Jessie, Evie and RR hop to it

Girls love games, bunnies, parties, baskets, chocolate,
springtime and Easter

Thanks for the great photos, blogmaid! Today I'm working out at
the Legion of Honor and look forward once again to having lunch
over there at the end of San Francisco ~ admiring the bay, bridge
and hills. I think back to when I worked at B&N and some young
thing was whining because the store was open on Easter Sunday.
"The whole world isn't Christian, Silly One", I said. Honestly, I
don't think she had ever considered that before.

good book news!

Delacorte to Release Collection of Unpublished Vonnegut Stories

By Lynn Andriani -- Publishers Weekly, 4/10/2009

Kurt Vonnegut’s longtime publisher, Delacorte Press, has announced it will issue 14 never-before published short stories by the author, who died in 2007, in a new collection, Look at the Birdie, slated for publication in November 2009. Donald C. Farber, co-executor of Vonnegut’s estate, brokered the world rights deal.

The publication of Look at the Birdie coincides with Delacorte’s reissuing of 15 Vonnegut backlist titles in packages featuring artwork Vonnegut created. Shortly before Look at the Birdie goes on sale, Delacorte will release new editions of The Sirens of Titan, Mother Night, Slaughterhouse Five and Galápagos, and the house will publish additional titles over the following months. Other original forthcoming titles will include a second collection of Vonnegut’s unpublished writings as well as a book of letters sent to and from the author over the course of his life. Delacorte has also acquired a follow-up memoir by Vonnegut’s son, pediatrician Mark Vonnegut, author of The Eden Express: A Memoir of Insanity (1975).

Look at the Birdie will include original Vonnegut illustrations and a foreword by Sidney Offit, a longtime Vonnegut confidant and the current curator of the George Polk Awards in Journalism. Bantam Dell publisher and editor-in-chief Nita Taublib and editor Kerri Buckley put the collection together. Taublib said, “Considered independently, these are 14 exceptionally intricate short pieces by an author whose voice we miss immensely. Taken together, they give the reader a clear sense of Kurt Vonnegut’s development into one of the most beloved and original American writers of all time.”

cutting to the basics

Thanks again to Dancing Jen for this very refreshing photo. And
also to Mr. Z for the writing tip below, which I really need to
remember and practice.

Walk Around. This isn’t purely a tech tip, but boy is it important to me while writing. Writing takes a lot of mental energy, and it helps enormously to get up and get the blood flowing at regular intervals. Many of the most revered writers who ever lived followed this as a best practice. Nabokov wrote most of his many novels standing at a lectern, handwriting. Hemingway did this too, including a lot of pacing.

twelve plus elijah

Passover is a lot of work ~ thanks Ms. and Mr. Plotnik!

Maniechevitz wine, the passover plate, Haggadah books and a yamaka

Every year gets even better at the GREAT Plotniks' passover dinner.
Last night we had a surprise visit from Elliot/Elijah, who now lives in
North Carolina and has been with us for the past two celebrations.
There was so much good food (beef brisket had the starring role) and
by now we feel like we know Pippa, Steve and Lois too.

I had a thought while reading about the unleavened bread last night.
No, it wasn't gratitude that the stores actually had matzohs this year,
I contemplated how so many Jews (husbando included) are genuinely
concerned with freedom and human rights around the world. Perhaps
this has to do with the yearly reading of the plight of their people
escaping slavery so long ago and being admonished time and time
again that if one group of people is enslaved, no one is free. No one.

A truly delightful evening, thanks again to the hosts.